I'm a ten year old girl too and my mom calls me a failure,and says I'm lazy.she said she gave up on me and I'm crying now 2!my mom even tried to get my dad to take me!I try at everything but it seems its not good enough 4 her.I recommend you sit in your room all day and ignore her :/ I kno it sucks but we got to liv with it.
You know if she finds any reason to shout or beat you and does nothing to your sibling or you could see the way your sibling asks for something but ask for the same thing and if the answer is no for you and yes for your sibling you have your answer.
Please please please do this: Do a search for Narcissistic Mothers. Read thru it, it may answer your questions. NOT EVERYONE is blessed to have a mother who actually loves them. It's a mental disorder.
I do not know your Mom but I am so sorry you even feel it necessary to ask that question. How painful it must be for you to doubt the love of your Mom! Let me tell you that sometime it may see that you Mom does not love you because she punishes you for some reason. That does not mean she does not love you. If fact, it may mean that she cares enough for you that she is concerned about you and how you act. It would be a very rare thing indeed for a Mom to truly hate their child. A parent can hate the actions of their child but rarely ever do they hate their child. If you have had an argument with your Mom or she is punishing you for some reason and you feel she is being unfair wait for things to cool down and then go to her and ask her why she took the action that she did. Tell her you love her but sometime it is scary for you because you are unsure of her love. Are you good to your Mom? Do you respect her and do as she asks? Do you break the rules and then try to hide your actions? Do you back-talk your Mom? All of these things can have a baring on how she treats you. I hope this is just a rough time for you and your Mom. It is not unusual for a parent and a child to disagree from time to time. But I would almost promise you, time will improve your outlook toward your Mom. Just keep telling her that you love her. Let her know how important she is to you. I bet you will find that she will tell you the same thing. It is often hard to say what is in your heart but give it a try! Good Luck. I care that you are hurting right now.
Well,I don't think my mom hates me but I thinks she really hard on me like she can't stand to be around me.iam 17 years old and she gives me rediculous times to come in like 7 or 8.I have a little sister and a little brother and they come in even later than that..its not only that, ive always had problems with my mon since the age of 12. She kick me out one time for getting her a present for her birthday.Just today I went to go sit on the porch and she locked me out and told my little brother not to let me back in since I think iam grown...She wants me to tell her every thing that goes on in my life like when I have boyfreinds and all that stuff.the problem is iam to scared to talk to her about that kind of stuff.she always tell when your 18 I could get out. It jsut hurts to know that ever time I get off the bus and go home I have to face a problem at home...
Ask her. 'mum, do you hate me?' if she says yes than that is your answer, similarly if she says no. If she says something like ' what a stupid question' or 'why do you ask that?' she probably doesnt hate you, but she doesnt want to say so. If she says 'of course not!' you are safe....if she says yes. You should tell another family member, friend or trusted adult.
My mum hates me even when I was younger she tried to truck A spoon at my eye she swears at my Friends she never lets me go out and she hits mw with wire and she says am not aloud to talk to boys she said she hates me and wishes I would die and I would never be born! But I love her in to bities
My mom is always singling me out of everything. Iike today I said I did the dishs yesterday and then we got into a heated argument and she was calling me a cry baby because I was crying because she was calling me lazy and yelling at me for no reason
Hey guys, today I'm going to tell you that your mom doesn't hate you even if you feel that even if she hits you she still loves you you know that when you say " I hate my mom cauze she hits me and she hates me!" you know what your doing? You are lik telling other people that your mom hates you and that harmes your mom it makes her sad and angry if she knows!
I am in a very similar situation and my mom does hate me she isint even proud of me and I have been in countless plays and I plays 5 sports and I captain on all the teams except 1!
