Florent Lefortier answered
Okay, I think you need to approach this quite sensitively. If you tease him about it, you’re going to ruin your relationship - and his self-esteem.
Why Is My Brother Wearing My Underwear?
It’s most likely a sexual fetish. Some guys like wearing women’s underwear, which you might find it weird, but that’s still not a reason to make fun of him.
Everyone gets turned on by different things - just think how mortified you’d feel if your brother had found out about something kinky that you like.
He’s probably wearing your underwear because he’s too embarrassed to go and buy his own, which is understandable. I doubt your mom’s underwear is his size (or as interesting!) so, unfortunately, he’s ended up wearing yours.
You don’t want to make your brother feel awkward about it, because he’s your brother, so it’s not really your business what gets him hot. If he likes wearing women’s underwear, let him get on with it - he’s not hurting anyone!
How Do I Stop Him Wearing My Bra And Panties?
This is the issue here. Forget the fact that he’s into women’s underwear - it’s the fact that he’s wearing yours that’s the problem!
Don’t freak out on him. Seriously, it could give him some huge sexual hang-up where he thinks he’s totally weird and perverted. It’s not that uncommon - a quick search on Blurtit will show you just how many guys do like wearing women’s underwear!
You need to say something like “I don’t care that you wear women’s underwear, just don’t wear mine.” Explain that you’re not happy with it because - well, it’s not nice having anyone wearing your underwear, really! Besides, you don’t want him stretching it.
What Should I Do Next?
You’ve actually got a great opportunity to strengthen your relationship with your brother, here. If your underwear fits him, offer to go underwear shopping by yourself and buy him his own.
This way, he gets his own bra and panties, you get to keep yours to yourself. He’ll trust, love and respect you more for having dealt with the situation so calmly and maturely.
Good luck!
Why Is My Brother Wearing My Underwear?
It’s most likely a sexual fetish. Some guys like wearing women’s underwear, which you might find it weird, but that’s still not a reason to make fun of him.
Everyone gets turned on by different things - just think how mortified you’d feel if your brother had found out about something kinky that you like.
He’s probably wearing your underwear because he’s too embarrassed to go and buy his own, which is understandable. I doubt your mom’s underwear is his size (or as interesting!) so, unfortunately, he’s ended up wearing yours.
You don’t want to make your brother feel awkward about it, because he’s your brother, so it’s not really your business what gets him hot. If he likes wearing women’s underwear, let him get on with it - he’s not hurting anyone!
How Do I Stop Him Wearing My Bra And Panties?
This is the issue here. Forget the fact that he’s into women’s underwear - it’s the fact that he’s wearing yours that’s the problem!
Don’t freak out on him. Seriously, it could give him some huge sexual hang-up where he thinks he’s totally weird and perverted. It’s not that uncommon - a quick search on Blurtit will show you just how many guys do like wearing women’s underwear!
You need to say something like “I don’t care that you wear women’s underwear, just don’t wear mine.” Explain that you’re not happy with it because - well, it’s not nice having anyone wearing your underwear, really! Besides, you don’t want him stretching it.
What Should I Do Next?
You’ve actually got a great opportunity to strengthen your relationship with your brother, here. If your underwear fits him, offer to go underwear shopping by yourself and buy him his own.
This way, he gets his own bra and panties, you get to keep yours to yourself. He’ll trust, love and respect you more for having dealt with the situation so calmly and maturely.
Good luck!
