I Have A 16 Year Old Son, I Caught Him Masterbating On My Panties, What Should I Do?

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Anonymous answered
Holy crap the kid is just jerking off.  He's using your panties because they are feminine.  They smell like a girl and taste like a girl.  They might even be silky smooth which is even better for the feel of it on him.  It's not about them being "yours".  They're probably the only ones he has ready access to, they add to an otherwise dull J.O.  Talking to him about it would be embarrassing to both of you, and thats unnecessary.  His behavior is probably normal, If it doesn't gross you out too much stop worrying about it and keep up on the laundry.  When he gets a girl this too will pass.
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beautiful sista answered
Well first off you need to realize that he is a teenage boy who has sexual needs and desires. Maybe he had your panties in his mouth because he has some kind of fetish of sort. Don't be alarmed it maybe just normal behavior. My advice to you would be to let it slide just pretend that you never saw it. But if you happen to see him do it again you need to tell him to lay off your panties, tell him that it is very disrespectful to you. But plz give him his privacy and space.
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Anonymous commented
well this is not the first time i tried to tell him to stop
James Schaaf
James Schaaf commented
Buy him his own panties and he will leave yours alone.
lela brown
lela brown commented
If he has them let it be because if hes not having sex then you should be lucky enough that hes not having sex because he is masterbating
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Lee Jay answered
Buy him his own panties then throw away his male undies, insisting he wear panties every day.  I am sure, once he does start wearing them he will love the look and feel of them against his skin and then if he masterbates it will be in his own panties
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dani lebeaux answered
You should see if her would like a sample of that smell directly rather than sneaking around and stealing your undies. Everyone needs a teacher. I mean think of his poor future girlfriends. If he doesn't learn how to go down on a girl properly then they might leave him and then he would feel rejected and really need therapy.
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Anonymous answered
Buy him his own panties and give them to him and tell him he can use them if he wants just leave your panties out of it
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Titus agore answered
This is pretty common you should get him some porn and a male sex toy it may just save your panties.  I been caught pulling the pecker a lot never put panties in my mouth not my mom's anyway.  If you bought him his own panties that would make it worse..  Talk to him explane that you know it was just because they were woman panties not your panties,,he wanted to smell a woman but you are not the woman he should be smelling,  I remember that age I would have stuck my jimmy in the light socket of a lamp if I thought it would get me off.
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Pink Penny answered
Have you considered that maybe your son may like to wear panties. I started wearing panties at about the same age. I am not gay but I like to cross-dress. Your son may in the future want to wear more than just panties. As I got older I found that I had a need to dress even though I tried to stop many times. Buy your son his own panties and take him with you so he can pick out what he wants. Be understanding and don't judge. He is going through a tough time trying to understand why he does what he does. Do some research of your own. There is plenty of information on the web.
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mek nic
mek nic commented
Believe it or not some kids draw straws to see who will go in to a womans strore and buy panties one for each person. Then couple weeks later here thet come again.so knock next time.and you might just buy a pair that dissappears and never seen again by you.
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Anonymous answered
Completely normal, let him continue. You might want to consider talking to him about to make him feel completely shameless about it. Encourage him to not close his door. Be open about it. In fact, I encourage you to give him your used panties
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Anonymous answered
I wouldn't blow your top, boys will be boys, but you do need to talk with him about it even though this is natural for a young teen.
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mek nic answered
Just tell him not to do that and knock next time since believe me he wont stop
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diego gutierrez answered
Talk to him serious talk and tell him to be open up to you why are you doing this are you not having sexual experience yet or no because that might be the reason.
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Anonymous answered
No don't send him to therapy that just sets him apart and will make him feel like hes done something wrong. Try to some how find him a nice girl to meet, tell him to be more social and get out once in a while with his friends, or you can always bring in a real cool older brother figure into the mix that can give him advice on what to do.
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You should take him to Victoria secret and buy him some really cute panties an thongs an bras let him pick out his favorites and tell him if he like wearing them to wear them everyday under his boy clothes so no one knows Ive been wearing them scene I was fourteen
an I still wear them and I have a really cute girlfriend
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Anonymous answered
First of all the boy is horny he needs sex lol really your moms no!he needs a girlfriend if he don't have one go yo the store get a playboy magazine let him look at it so he can get your panties out of his head
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Anonymous answered
Therapy if hes jerking off on your panties thats wrong he should be looking at porn or stealing his girls friend thongs or buy them not his moms eeeeeeewwwwwwwww

I am a dad of a 17 and he is sexually active

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