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I Like This Girl In My Class. How Do I Get Her To Like Me?

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Anonymous answered
Look your not the only one in the world with this problem, I'm 17 and I still have this problem, I'm just too afraid to ask girls out. If you want the best way to get a girl, its non of these people. You must go slow it takes time maybe 1-3 months but in the end it worth it, just try to be funny but not too funny, when she says something in class agree with her, sit close to her, if she asks the teacher for help jump in and say its easy and show her in a nice way in a few weeks you will become very good friends and she will start to hug you and talk to you in the hall and then you will become very confident in yourself and you wont be shy around her, and it will be very easy trust me.
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Do not make fun of her. That is one thing that is a real turn off to most girls. Try complimenting her, like tell her how cool her new shoes are, or how awesome that new haircut is. Give her a high five or say hi when you cross her in the halls. It will let you know that you look forward to seeing her at school and that you notice her. Give her a quick smile. Girls dig that. Try to get to know her friends. They influence most of her moves. That means that when you ask her out and she goes back to decide and ask her friends. THAT COULD BE HUGE! So definetly befriend HER friends too. Have your guy friends tell her about how you talk about her all the time. She will be flattered! Hope this helps!

                                      PS. I am a girl so I would know this stuff! :)
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Anonymous answered
Do little things..
Like hold the door for her.
If she looks at you during class,
smile at her.
Talk to her after class.
If she needs help,
offer to tutor her.
Even if you have no clue what your doing.
GOOD LUCK! (:
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Anonymous answered
You guys are in for it.
I was head over  heels about this girl; we complimented each other on everything. It was going smooth.... Until one of her friends got angry at me.
She framed me by making it seem that I made her cry. The girl I liked ditched me. Getting your dream person is easy- but make sure you're nice to her friends too!
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Anonymous answered
O_o I like this girl in my class also... But, I'm waiting.
   In class, she looks at me most of the time when were in the classroom.
Then I look at her a few, then I turn away..THEN I turn to look at her again... She was looking at me :o   
  BUT when me and her was in art class, she had a expression on her face... It felt like sadness or anger, but I will wait.
   And you should too, just when you two are alone... POP the question....
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judy dimassi answered
Go to her say hi ask her a question about the subject ask for her number look at her ,and when she looks back turn let her see you looking at her but make it really fast,if she smilies she loves you if not she doesn't so you have to try harder
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If there is someone you like, and you want to let them know, they only way is to tell them! Now, how to tell them is the key. Depending on how confident you feel, you have a few options I think. One is to just walk up to them and let them know how you feel. The problem with this is that if you think you will get flustered and stumble all over your words, then it may not be the best thing to do in this instance. The next option then would be to get her phone number (maybe off a friend or something) and give her a call. This then takes away all the problems of being self concious about the way you look when talking to her for the first time. If you still don't think you can handle that one, then the last option would be to write her a letter and let her know exactly how you feel. Personally, I would go for this one as you get to say exactly what you want and have the time to perfect it. It also means that if you don't get a favourable response, there is a lot less awkwardness.

Anyway, have a think about that and give one of them a go. Just be honest and tell her the way you feel, you never know your luck!
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Anonymous answered
Well, try talking to her. She will admire you for you courage. If you don't know what to talk about, compliment her. Girls LOVE to be complimented! GOOD LUCK!!!
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Brenda Harrell answered
Hi, I think, I would ask her out for a date. Please do not ask her around her friends. Girls seem to act different in front of their friends and so do boys. If she says no, then she may not be interested in you. If she rejects your advances, do not be too crushed it will be her lost and who knows she may change her mind and date you at another time in your life. Of course if you feel she is worth pursuing try asking her again a few months later. Take care!
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First off, try to sit somewhat close to her in class. Try then asking a question regarding the class. Then introduce yourself, and then continue working. See if she looks at you while you're not looking. That would be a definite indicator of interest. If you're not sure, look at her and smile when she looks back. But don't stare, it'll creep her out. After class ends, catch her on her way out, and say something like this, "Hey, in case I need help on an assignment let me get your number." She won't turn you down because it's for "school." Then you basically have to ease into it and work your magic from there.
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Ester Dongirya answered
Be a nice guy and start a conversation and get to know her better and she will see what a Good Guy you are
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Anonymous answered
If you want her to like you then just be yourself and always listen to her problems when she needs to talk to somone. Just be her friend! All love starts with friendship so be her friend!!

Also never forget to be YOURSELF!
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Ali Dock answered
Okay its a step by step process. Before hand do you like her looks or her personality. If you said looks your an idiot you need to see a doctor.  If you have anything in common good....
Process is
1) see if you have anything in common
2) get to know her
3) become close friends (good enough friends she will come to you with her problems.)
4) find out if how she feels about you by having your friend ask or by her friends
5) if #4 worked and she likes you ASK HER OUT FAST or else she will be gone....
5) if #4 failed and she doesn't like you MOVE ON
I am a girl take my advice.... We are delicate....we are mean...we are moody......GET OVER IT....
HOPE I HELPED
XOXO...... LOVE
ME ... DUH
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Anonymous answered
Have You Tried Talking To Her ?

Or If You Have To Choose Pairs in Class Ask If You Can Go With Her ?

Dose She Like You Back ? If yOu don't Know This Ask One Of Her Mate ?

Just Be Your Self Around Her , Drop Suttle Hints :)x
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Anonymous answered
Ask her out. If she says no way, maybe you should just let it go...
thanked the writer.
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I would but the thing is that the place where I live,people only go out with each other after they are more 20 years old.So the best thing would be talking to her.So I appreciate it you guys could tell me how can I ask her for her E-mail Id,indirectly.
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Anonymous answered
Don't be worry just ask her out if she says no its not the end of the word. Just move on or ask her another time.
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Sapiens answered
I must warn you, love is not an emotion, like people say it is. IT IS AN OBSESSION. Be aware, love can drive you insane, strip you of your wisdom, and leave you in chaos.
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Rosa Darby answered
Talk to her and get to know her! Once you are friends with her tell her that you like her and just wait for her response! The only way to know that someone likes you is to ask, or if they tell you. Don't freak her out by pressuring her into something she doesnt want to do.
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Watch her if she is looking at me and smiling without seeing me. Or I can tell her about my feeling. But the problem this girl have many friends and she always stay with them  I can't see her alone and aim shy to tell my feelings in front her friends and also aim not sure if she likes me too. I wish there's a way to find out. She never looks at only if there is a project together and it's once in two month. I always think of her. I sometimes talk to her best friends in the playground but I can't tell her that I love her best friend because already I told all my classmates I don't even like her. So that is a huge problem. I didn't even told my parents and aim too shy to tell anyone even  the girl I like, and the biggest problem that aim afraid from her reaction if I told her. I hope someone could help me. Thank you
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Anonymous answered
Feed her poetry.

Get loads of things that she likes and just slip them into her bag. If you want her to know that you sent them sign a note with your name on it
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I like a girl but I think she hates me but sometimes she acts nice what should I do
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I am exactly the same there is a girl in my english class hoo sits next to me hut I feel if I asked her to be my girl friend it would be awkward and she wouldn't think of me as a friend she wouldthink of me as a wierdo and avoid me (she is called Mary renard)
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I am only 10 so I do not have much experiece but I think you should go talk to her friends (if any are boys you could talk to them that way it would seem abit less acward)if that fails just try to get someone ELSE to tell her how YOU feel it works I tried yesterday and it works

P.S.or you could just get her gifts and find out where she lives!
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I have the same thing going on with me. But all I am going to do is find some answers to.
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Anonymous answered
I got the EXACT same problem... I like a girl ay my school and sometimes I think she likes me back.... Please help
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kitty haha answered
I have the same prob. (but its a guys) but I just talk to him and everyone thinks we should be bf and gf..... So just talk to her good luck :D
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I am 11 and I really fancy this girl and we both flirt wiv each other ,but wen I ask her out she sed no why?

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