Unfortunately, there’s no guaranteed way of making your crush fall in love with you. If so, seemingly every girl on the planet would be with Justin Bieber, and we all know that even this teen hottie couldn’t handle all of them! Because of this, we need to think of some practical tips that will allow us to win the hearts of the people we care about.
Sometimes, being bold and asking for a casual day out can be the best thing to do. This doesn’t have to be a date; going out for a coffee or bowling as friends is good enough. Choosing to see a movie might not be the best option as it doesn’t allow you to have too much conversation, and this is really what you want if you’re going to prove how fantastic you are.
Of course, you could casually ask their friends about the type of people they’re into. If they like people who dress fashionably, rushing down to Topshop or Topman is a great idea in order to make sure that you look all sophisticated and gorgeous the next time you see them.
If all else fails, don’t be afraid to show them your sense of humour, invade their personal space, and treat them like you’ve known them all your life, even if you’ve just met the crush tonight. You only live life once, and who knows, you might end up being in a super happy nine-month relationship with them because of the bold risks you took in the beginning.
This can be difficult. First talk to the guy/girl, become his/her friend but don't be too pushy otherwise you'll make him/her a bit weirded out. If he/she starts to make eye contact, says hi, and talks to you about himself/herself that is good! Flirting can be an option but it depends on the guy/girl you're after. Don't write his/her name on you're stuff or obsess about him/her too much because if heher finds out he'll/she'll find it creepy. And don't stalk! Sure you can check his/her Facebook status once in a while but don't follow him or keep tabs on him. If he/she treats you like any other girl/boy, maybe he/she likes someone else, doesn't feel that way about you, or he/she doesn't know yet. It's all about patience. Body language is important too, if they look you in the eye, make physical contact, fidget around you or they don't put up physical barriers around you they might like you. And if all else fails try these two options.
1. "I think I'm starting to like you. Is this a bad thing?" - See how that goes if you're brave.
2. Say "Hey do you want to see a movie?" and if they say "Ummm, sorry but I don't like you that way." Say this "Woah! Uh, no offense but I didn't mean it like that. But since you're not interested..." - very sly but make sure you have a good friend or two who will go a movie with you when you ask.
All people are different so it might be easy or hard to tell if they like you. Some people are shy so you might have to make bigger hints or make the first move. If they are jerks or hardly know you exist, move on. There are a bunch of awesome people waiting out there, just take a look and see.
- Be yourself
- Don't creep or stalk
- Dress nicely and clean yourself up
- Be friendly
- Listen to them
- Hang around the people they hang with
- Maybe leave some underlining hints
- Laugh at their jokes...unless they are really bad lol
- Don't try to be annoying so give them some space from time to time
- Find common interests
Hope this helps!
First thing is to relax; its very easy…talking to the opposite sex is an easy job. Most of the guys or girls are scared of the opposite sex, so by just talking to your crush you are giving them a small reason to like you, once your crush feels that he or she is worth your time, it will make them feel at ease. The most important factor to make your crush like you is, don't walk up to them and blurt out your feelings. The first step is to look at them and give your best smile…after that a small 'Hi' will do. Once you get the reply of your greeting. Once your crush knows you, start building a healthy relationship with them, you can make a friendly gesture or comment whenever you see him.
Keep your conversations casual, don't make them boring. Also do a little bit of research on the person you have a crush on. Once you put the focus on your crush and make them feel important, you can tell them how you feel for them, after that just hope for the best.
Well I have a crush on this guy at school. He is so amazing and funny and he just makes you love him.! Its going to be a year that I like hiim in 3 moonths 22days. Anyway we have a strong connection. A matter a fact he started the convo this morning so I'm still talking to him. We flirt A LOT we hug sometimes..a lot. Wee have the best convos. And everything and the best part is HE KNOWS I LOVE HIM ! He said he's completely comfortable with he thinks its cool.
So tips : Just be like kid I like you idc if you don't like me I just want to be your friend. Then just get to know the real him. Let him get to you . Everything happens in time so wait. Then get his number or his aim or facebook or myspace and start showing him what he should be inlove with. Its working for me it'll work for yu
Well, its just a bit simple. First of all, you need to be his/her friend, of course. Then try to get to know him/her better like what his/her fave color is, fave songs fave etc.... Then when you get to know him/her better, you could at least give him/her tiny gifts like his fave chips or a gift in a game he/she likes like in face book: Pet society, I gave him a green shirt for his pet because he likes green. Then he'll/she'll start to like you because of your generosity. But of course be funny! Boys/girls love funny people! But don't make your jokes corny. And don't look anxious infront of him/her! Be gentle too! Don't act angry for a tiny little thing he/she did or something like spilled your water or something.
Here is what I would do, firstly get to know him and a few of his close friends, then when you start getting subtle hints such as he talks to you first, he hesitates when you ask him who he likes, he will keep the convo moving even when it's about nothing because he enjoys talking to you, ask his closest friend if he/she knows who your crush likes, if they say yes ask who?, if they tell you someone else's name (i.e. Not yours) try asking a few friends, if you get the same answer from all/most of them then he probably doesnt like you, if none of them give you straight answers, then it is most probable he likes you, this is when you pull out stage 2, tell him how you feel, face to face (he will respect you a lot more if it is face to face.) and this way you can see his initial reaction to your words. From there if the feelings are returned then, congrats, if not try staying friends cause one day your crush might change thier mind. I used these steps and my BF Miles and I have been happily dating for a year. All the best to you.
First of all you have to stay calm around him/her and don't be silly because then he/she will hate you.Next, try to talk to him about things you both like.Always smile at her/him so he or she will smile back.Try to get as close as you can to your crush and make him/her get close to you.
Hi , I got this crush at school that has a crush on my best friend . They like each other so I became their tunnel , for sending messages and stuff , so I told the guy that she really likes him and also to my bff . So one day I realize I like the guy too , I don't know what to do , I just pretend to be ok , but when my bff talks about him , and how much she loves him , I fall apart . I don't know what to do :(((.
Well. I like this guy and he told me that he likes me. So I asked him out but he hasn't checked his emails yet and then he asked another girl out making me feel really bad. I don't talk to him face much face to but we always sent each other emails. I havent had a reply for a while now and I am getting worried. I think that one of the best ways to get a guy to notice you and see if he likes you is to just go up to him and start talking. Maybe you will become better friends, and maybe you will become more confident around him. I still need to pluck up the courage to ask him myself but I get so dang nervous when I am around him. Don't do what I did. Talk to him. I made that mistake and now he has another girlfriend. My friend says he might have another girlfriend just to get me jealous. If she is right then he is doing a very good job at making me jealous.
I told my crush that I like him he said its okay then he said I love you as a friend then we started texting each other then my phone broke when I went to school he's not talking to me so I did what he did I didn't talk to him a few weeks later he keeps on staring at me even I'm just talking with my classmates and laughing every time I look at him he keeps on staring does he like me even if I'm fat???...
My crush is a new student and hes all I want and 16 girls at my school like him including me and my bestfriend
my best friend always hoggs him and walks with him afterschool never giving me a chance
she even asked him if he liked someone he said yes and she knows and she wont tell me who
she says its not me and its breaking my heart ! :(
I gotz a HUGE crush on a guy at school he gos to my church and we never rly talk but we know eachother enuff to like eachother he gives me looks in the halls at school, but I just can't figure out if he likes me!!!!
Ok if you have a friend that is a boy and their friends with your crush ask them to ask your crush what type of girls he likes his fav songs fav colors and other things. Then try to seem like those things are your favs to then he will like (thats what I'm doing and its working!) then talk to him and eventually he will ask you out
But what if you and him use to be friends, but then someone blurted out about you like him and now he never talks to you like for about 2 months? What should I do? And now, we have some big problems going on too. OHHHHH! I bet he wouldn't like me.
I have a HHHHHHUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGEEEEEEEEEE crush on this boy in my class but I have a strange feeling he likes my friend (she likes him) and I cought her smiling at him and I'm shure he was smiling back I reeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaallllly want this boy I will give up anything to be with him anything sooooo what should I do
Start to get know them better
My crush is a close friend
we talk when we meet, and we hang out a lot
the problem is, we are JUST friends
I can't make the first move, because I don't know how he feels
now I'm just hoping HE will say something
I would start slowly by giving small gifts and favours.
Then I would probably give a note to them saying "I love you".
Tell him/her about yourself and see if they're interested in you
the rest is up to you
My crush are rly rly open minded with me. We always glance at each other once in a while and do a funny face :P . But I don't know if he likes me or not..
Well most likely he probably stills has feelings for his ex but he thinks that he has feelings for someone else you might just be his eye candy but he doesn't want to say anything or does he?sometimes boys feel as though they can hold on to something longer than they need to ...so if your crush hasn't said anything to you yet.then all of a sudden he does just by a simple hi girl just know that he's totally into you or wants to get 2 know you first either way girl he's ours especially if he cat take his eyes off of you just know not to say anything to him first if you think he still has feelings for his crush you let him do that talking first ------>pink
I really like this guy in my class, I so want him to like me back, but I'v seen other girls talk to him, and I always wnat to be in the same group of him but I always seem to on on the other team, someone help me, I really like him
I think my crush still likes his ex- but he stares at me why??
Don´t be clumsy. Guys hate clumsy!
I am a girl and my crush know that I like him but I don't know if he likes me
Well,I'm to make a long advice short, technically you have to try and calm down AND MAKE SURE NO ONE ELSE LIKE HIM OR HER TOO! AND BE NICE AND HELP OUT with HOMEWORK OR THE SCHOOL WORK.
I like this guy he's like my bro we r really good friends and we talk a lot he sum times looks at me I really look at him does he like me
He will stare at you a lot...talk to you every chance he gets...touch you every chance he gets...and flirt way too much but if he does flirt out of hand and hes your crush you will probably think its cute or funny...that also means he nervous but not the shy type if he brings up his penis/dick::::::hoped this helped:-)
My crush is always staring at me, but I only sit next to him in one lesson but he sits next to my bestfriend in almost all the lessons (because the teacher chooses who get to sit where) and I'm having problems that my bestfriend likes the same boy as me. Somebody help me.
I like someone in my class I always tease her one day I realize that I like her I want to get her attention but when I told her she dint care and answered me "I don't like you"!!! :(((((((((((((
I have a huge crush on one of my friends at school. He is a boy and I really like him. He liked me in second grade and in fifth grade. But over spring break I asked him if he still liked me and he said he doesn't know because he barely gets to see me. That really me because I liked him a lot and I wish that I could of gone out with him. When we came back from spring break my friend asked him out for me and he asked why. That also hurt me because I knew then that he didn't like me because if someone liked you and you asked them out, they would say yes.
I like this guy in school, but he actually talks less to his actual crush than me, but he told me he still likes her. What does that mean then?
Be confident and cool,the next three times he trys to talk to you says sorry I'm busy it ll make him try and intrest you and get your attention
Hi. I have a huge crush on this guy in my class. I have had it since the start of the year when I waz sitting next to him. Then I didnt think I liked him but seemed to enjoy talkin 2 him.. Thats when I found out I did like him. Every lunch time at skool my 2 bffs and me follow him round when hes playin footy and keep asking him 2 go out with me. He keepz sayin either "no" or doesnt answer us at all,but I really want him so I keep askin everyday.
When I waz sittin next 2 him we talked 2 each other and also the othr person nxt 2 me just like anyone would. But he waz the only one who actually answered me from the convo the nxt day or somethin. Or 2 tell me more bout what we were talkin bout. Ever since I asked him out he doesnt do that anymore. Havei annoyed him? :(
(all I want is him)