How Do I Get This Boy I Like To Notice Me?

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Asad Ali Profile
Asad Ali answered
Boys usually like girls who are not artificial and selfish.They prefer girls which are always themselves and which are not too possessive plus they should have good sense of humor.Just be your self and not be too serious and he will fall for you.
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Anonymous answered
Be your self. Don't act stupid, and scream when you see him. Make small talk. Walk past him and laugh, but not don't. Smile at him when ever  you catch him taking a quick glance at you.
Make him laugh.  :)
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Anonymous answered
Just be yourself and don't let a boy get the best of you and make you change so much that you lose friends. I know how you feel I liked this guy and almost everyone knew that I liked him but him and I could never have the nerve to talk to him. So just be yourself and enjoy your freedom while you have it. And also be nice to him and like wave to him or become friends with him. Never let a boy change you or let you do some thing you don't want to do because it will stab you in the back when you do it so yeah just be yourself. BOYS ARENT EVRY THING!
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I'm in the same situation your in and he's like 1 or 2 years older that me
be yourself get his attention first though...make eye contact don't scare him say hi when he walks passed or hey...when you get to the point that he kinda knows start making  little conversations with him and from there progress he may not even be the one you want who knows  or you could just get to know him through a friend that works well I hope my info. Helped
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Cate durheim answered
Learn to recognize his way with girls and read the signs-:
1. Is he a Jerk around his friends but Nice when hes not?
If this is the case then FORGET about him. He clearly is too Naive to admit he likes you to his mates and there fore will NEVER work up the courage to ask you out with out losing his Status around his mates.
2. Does he smile, talk and walk with you when People are watching?
If he does then he clearly doesn't care if people start saying he likes you because he really does. The trick with this is that now you know he likes you - Wait until he asks you out. If you ask him, he may back off a little, feeling that it is not a good time.
3. How long does he hold down a relationship?
If his record is less than a Month, he clearly changes his mind too fast about girls and to avoid being hurt, say no the first time he asks you out. If he  completely backs off and goes out with someone else- he really didn't care for you much. If he hangs around- he likes you a lot, but after you said no, decided to wait and see- if this happens you need yo reassure him that the feelings mutual.

If you see all this happen with a guy towards you, there is no need to be someone different or act different because he likes you.
But if this doesn't happen with the guy you like or any other ones you could like- this maybe because they barely no you and you aren't in their line of sight.
Push your way into their line of sight by hanging out with some of their friends or showing up where they are from time to time. This should get them to notice you!
Hope this helps!
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Anonymous answered
No prob. Whenever you meet him in the hall,if he says hi,say hi back. Don't get crazy about it. Hold your feelings in till you get home. Then you can go crazy girlie! Don't go crazy at school. The last thing you need is for him to think you r desperate.
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Anonymous answered
Be yourself ,smile when ever you see him , and never ever act like you are to prepy unless he likes prepy girls. ^.^    also try to get his attention , say hi or hey and make eye contact.
If he wins something or gets something congratulate him. If he is your friend you will know a lot about him and you can talk about what you and him like! :D so... Good luck with the boy you like!!!!!!                      !GOOD LUCK!  :D
Nikki Ridgerider Profile
I think it's alright for you to just be friends for now, not kiss and work your way up. To get a guy to notice me I would be nice to people and give everyone compliments, even people who are mean to you. Also try to be unique and have your own style!
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Anonymous answered
Well you should defiantly be yourself around him. You should smile a lot and laugh funny things that he does but don't be annoying, guys don't like that. Invite him out to the movies with you and your friends and maybe go out to eat after so you can get to know him better. Try to make eye contact with him but don't stare too long just glance at him every now and then.
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Anonymous answered
Become great friends! Then make it look like your the most amazing girl. Play hard to get.... Make him wait. Turn him on and then leave him hangin lol.
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Well the most important thing is that you should always be yourself and try to be unique.
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I had that problem .. Still do :( you think .. Well he hangs with all the " pretty" girls why would he like me ? You would be shocked that he might look when your not paying attention .... Good luck   BE do SELF  xx
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You get a boy to like you by being your self and trust me if you ignore him for a few days he will like you.
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Just be yourself first just hug him good bye and say hi.then tell someone he knows that will keep it a secret. Then you get his number and text him then he will start to like you
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My advice is to just be your self no matter what. The Boy/Guy will eventually like you because you are being yourself

Good luck x
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Most boys like girls who look super cute and put together, honstly they like bitches,ignore him but not to over the top if he starts a convo answer but make it short and sweet and make it seem like you can't talk long but don't be rude.find something about urself people think is really cute like a face or body movement and use it in certain situations when your around him.don't change urself so hell like you,be up front tell him who you r but don't tell him about weird things that are turn offs lol. Find someone you like not based purely on looks,in my experience when you find someone whos a total oposite it can be bad, don't find your twin find someone with simalar intrists and someone you noe ull be comfortble to act or wear anything around, but please don't become a total slob I mean the whole reason we try so hard to look good is for boys so try to keep up an aperience even after you snag him :) remeber everyone has a match out thier so don't give up it just may take patients
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Shayla Jay answered
Well he may not even know you like him and probably haven't paid any attention to you before. Try talking to other people in his crowd and getting involved with him as friends first. Show him how cool you can be. He may like you and is just to shy to say it, just like you are. Guys like a girl who can be trustworthy. Try building a friendship off of trust, first. Always be yourself and don't try to change your looks or anything. You are who you are and if he's anything special, he'll recognize you. Stay in a good clique and show him that you're not snobby or anything and that you're a nice person. Also, guys like girls who are honest and are not afraid to tell it like it is, even if it's to them. The key to getting a guy to like you is to always be yourself and ignore anyone who picks on you for it. =D .! You'll notice a change.
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Anonymous answered
I don't know how to make a guy like you but if you want him to stay with you for more than a week then give him some space. He can't be with you all the time, he will have friends he may want to talk to or hang out with, he may like sports so give him a little space to do sports. My old boyfriend loved sports so I would sit and watch him or id play along. He thought that was so cool that I didnt try to stop him from doing what he likes. The only reason we split up was because in the end it seemed to us we were just friends. And we still are.
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tia lanham answered
Oh my god I have nearly the same problem,I reli like this boy thts 2 years older than me but we already txt each other like everynight,he knows tht I like him but then he got a gf , but we used to talk dirty to eachova and stuff like txtin and it was our secret then he got his gf and stopped but still wanted to be m8s. We r still m8s but I'm so in love with him its unreal I need help because I feel reali lonley I just want sumone to be there to hold me and watch films wid and like to me mi best m8 but mi bf 2 if you get what I meen
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vijanti dhanji answered
Well you see it is very easy to make someone to notice you. All you have to do is follow some simple rules. Firstly make sure that you don't show any interest in that person, if he is the centre of attraction then he will definitely think why you don't show any interest in him. And he himself will make friends with you. Secondly do not show him that you like him or you want to be friends with him, even if you get to talk to him, just talk to the point and make beat about the bush. At times you make a fool of yourself in an attempt to sound cool. So don't do that.

Make sure that you dress up nicely, and the way you present yourself is extremely important. You have to make him realize that you are also beautiful and that people know you too. See beauty is not just physical appearance, what you have inside really matters. If you have a nice heart, he will for sure like you. Slowly and gradually he will notice you and will want to know you more. This is the point where you open up a little to him, just a little. Let him decide what you want. At times you have to confuse the other person in order to make them busy in solving the mystery behind your face.
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Anonymous answered
Here's my advice, be yourself! I see you said you never act yourself, but just take a deep breath and talk! Pretend he's on of your best friends. Imagine how it will feel if he asks you out on a date. If your crush doesn't see the real you, try harder. Eventually, he'll see through you, into the inside of your real feelings. Take things slow at, first if he asks you out. Go out a few more times. Even if you love him "soooooooo much", don't agree to be his girlfriend after just one date. He needs to get to know you and you need to get to him. If things were meant to be, you'll end up with each other through thick and thin. If things weren't meant to be, than so be it. One of these days, you will find your soul partner, and everything will feel just right, because both of you will know you love each other more than anyone else.
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Anonymous answered
All you have to do is this: Hang out with your friends make sure that he knows you have friends that means your likable. Whenever you can walk past him. Make friends with his friends. Then work your way up to him, don't make it obvious that you like him, before you make friends with him act like you don't even know he is alive. That makes him like you more.
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I think my crush likes me because he smiles around me and makes a lot of eye contact. I've found that looking at him back and smiling a lot and trying to be myself has worked. Now I really want to start a conversation on I'm to talk to him more. This is another good way to get him to notice you. Good Luck!
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Okay so I think you should definitely be your self and I  also think that you should try to get involved in his life but don't be a stocker like maybe he needs help in some class and maybe Sho could try to help him but don't be shy also Sho should put your mind thinking that if he doesnt like Sho its because your to good for him never let a boy put tou down and if your a scorpio Sho rock but if your not Sho still rox                      scorpios rule
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Mark Westbrook answered
The problem with getting boys to notice you is that they often notice the wrong things about you. Boys are very simple creatures. They like people who like them and they like girls (well most of them do, some of them like other boys).

The way that you dress will often get you noticed by boys (and probably also men unfortunately) but it's important for you not to dress in a way that you feel uncomfortable, you are the most important person to keep happy.

If you would like my honest advice, ignore the boys, get a good education, do plenty of exercise, eat balanced meals and spend plenty of time developing great friendships with other people (of both genders). Sooner or later, the boys will start to notice you, and let me be honest again, then you will be fighting them off with a stick and will probably never have to worry about boys noticing you ever, ever again.
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Erin Smith answered
If you want guys to notice you don't change your ways, trust me your way too good for that. Even if I don't know you. If you want them to notice you just simply be yourself or don't be afraid to talk to them. Like start a small conversation but don't give them the satisfaction that your nervous! Trust me it'll all work out!:)(:
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Anonymous answered
I have the same exact problem-I like this older boy and I want him to get to know me before he decides that he doesn't like me. And almost all of my friends have boyfriends too!! It gets annoying after a while being the only single one. Everyone tells me to tell him that I like him and flirt with him and smile at him when I pass him in the halls and stuff but it never works
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I have a similar problem- this boy in my class found out liked him and one day my friend was talking 2 him and asked if he liked me and he was silent 4 a while then he changed the subject....also he is one of the most popular boys in my grade and I am not even in the popular group-----well I am one of the most popular girls in my class but not in the grade------so how do I get him to ask me out and if he does how do I say yes? Please help me, QUICK!

Stranger from across the street
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Anonymous answered
I have the same problem I love this guy who is the same age as me but I can't talk to him I can only say hi to him thats it and all my friends have boyfriends and ive never dated or kissed a guy EVER cause I'm not that important to anyone ='[
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Anonymous answered
Just be yourself and if he can't like you for who you are then he isn't the right guy for you but to get him to notice you find out what he likes to do and see if he wants to go woth you or just simply talk about it
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Anonymous answered
I can defiantly help you with this because I had the same problem.
I liked this boy for ages and he never seemed to notice me so when he was walking down my street because we live near each other I went outside with my bag and "accidently" tripped, which made my things go everywhere, he ran over to help, our eyes met and know were going out!
So my advice to you is to do something which makes him want to help you, like what I did. He then will defiantly notice you because if he an see you he wouldnt ignore and incident like that.
Hope I have helped x ♥
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mahalia reimer answered
There's this boy hes in my class and hes so unexplainable, I like him a lot I try my best to tell him or show him, its hard when hes popular and doesn't really care about unpopular kids he doesn't answer me on facebook or anything. I like him a lot and I just want him to know so today I finally had the nervous and sent him a MSG and said I like him a lot, that all I wanted was to get that off my chest and just tell him. We talk sometimes in class,we get along in basketball because we both love it. He said I was SO good at it I always think he likes me but I'm just fooling myself I want to believe that I'm pretty and he will like my but I never see anything. I just want him to like me for who I'm and believe I can be an amazing girl... Please help me, I've tried everything and searched everything what to do..... I just need some help PLEASE I feel like I'm dying.....!
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What if the person you fancy has been out of your life for a few years but every time you think about them, you think about yourself with them. I only have the address of the person I fancy and I can't turn up at his house and ask him out, especially as I used to know him so well....

But in answer to you're question, make them jealous, look like you are always having fun and talk to someone in their eyeline you should be sure to get noticed.
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I like this guy he lives on my road and hes well older than me I just want to have the nerve to speak to him but I don't even no him but I want to get to no him how I am gunna do that though I want him to notice me and I want him to come up to me and talk to me I really like him aswell I don't no what to do !!
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Oh my god I have the same problem as well, but what I have done is come really close to some boys let them trust you so they can tell you things, honestly I find life a lot better when I am friends with the boys and not trying to impress them
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Yeah I agree with everyone who has answered really, just be yourself and if a boy is worth it, he will love you for being yourself!! X
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I like this boy to from Church and he is a triplet his brothers know I like him and they look a  me smile and then look at him but I don't know if he notices me Riley or not he has hardly ever tried to talk to me
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Look at the boy and giggle he will want to know what you are giggling and you will have an excuse to talk to him but when he says what are you laughing about say nothing then walk away. That will leave him wondering what you were laughing about.
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Ilike this boy in year 10, he went out wid my bestmates friend in year 10, now shes dumped him, and apparently he still ikes her, I'm madly inlove wid him, hes soo fit, the fittest in the school,
iknow ttheres better looking girls than me, but ireally want him x
how doiget him 2 notice me, plz help?! Xxxxxx and I'm only in yr8
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jessica Tema answered
Hi, I really like this boy, Daniel, but he is in 8th grade and I am only in 7th. I think he is sooooo hot! I am in the popular group but since I am younger, I will not just go up and talk to him. I think he is so cute that at recess, we play volleyball and accidentally hit it  him and I try to get him to pass it to me. He is all I think about! Does anyone have any good ways to make him notice me without being weird or too flirty? I am only in 7th grade. Anything I can do to make him notice I am on this universe? Please help!!!!!! Thanks!!
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Anonymous answered
Wear cute cloths or do things the boy likes to do. Find someone that finds interest in you. Find a boy friend. If you're in school don't focus on  boys focus on school and then get a job and find a boyfriend.
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There to hot to ignore! But I'm a 10 year old girl and I want boys to notice me what do I wear and what do I do with my hair?
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Well you don't know me but this is what I would do. I yell a lot and I had my friend yell at me really loud but say my name and that caught his attention and I even got his #!
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Arthur Wright answered
Forget it and wait about another 4 years and look me up on here and Ill tell you a fool proof way to get any guy or as many as you want everytime but for now worry about school and let the boys alone

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