I agree with most of what rayoflight said. And I think that how you are feeling is really common in marriages. People get so caught up in work and kids that they start to forget about what is important to themselves and their marriage. Life tends to become very repetitive: Get kids off to school, go to work, come home, make dinner, put kids to bed, go to sleep.. Repeat. We tend to ignore ourselves and spouses. And when we put everything else first, we lose a part of ourselves. I think you should do something for yourself today. Get your haircut and dyed. Get a new dress.. Start a new workout plan.. Etc. And then, do something for your husband. Get him that gadget he has been wanting, for no reason. And maybe go on a date together. Get a babysitter, put on some makeup and that new dress, and go to your favorite restaurant. Do something you both really enjoy.. Go skiing, or to a drive in movie.. I think that your husband hasn't forgotten you exist, but he is just as caught up in all the everyday stuff as you are. You just need to do somethings to break the monotonousness. Be spontanious! Do something out of the norm.. It will draw his attention. Good luck.. I hope I was helpful.
