I loaned my boyfriend money to attend a funeral in Africa and shortly after he returned he dumped me. I had previously gave him money for many things in our 5 year relationship which I never asked for to be returned but I did make clear to him before he went that this was a loan. I have never heard from him since and I know he has now moved on to someone else. Is it worth contacting him again to ask for my money because I don't ever want to hear his voice again or should cut my losses and put it down to experience.
