Players are gifted, charming, liars. They tell you what "you want to hear".....
If their actions do not support their words - you have your proof. I was engaged 3 times
to a player who had a million excuses as to why he couldn't treat me as well as he treated the girls he tried to bed ( during our many breakups)... Found receipts for roses, dinners, shows, clothes, etc. Etc. For OTHER women but he never took me out ONE TIME - not even a hot dog claiming he had no money. He also spent wads of money on Viagra - for OTHER women.
The last straw was when we were supposed to be married in a month - and I found him on TWO dating sites pretending to be SINGLE. He never answered his phone in my presence.. And one day - I looked at his computer. There he was on Yahoo Messenger with at least TEN women as "FRIENDS".... Who I knew nothing about. Ladies - trust your gut. It will never fail you. If it feels wrong.... IT IS.. A man who loves you will make you feel secure, protected, and valued. A player has no clue what it means to respect a woman. You know why? He has no respect for himself. His character is FLAWED. Liars are cheats. They go hand in hand. He's about WINNING the prize - he could give a flying fig newton about relationships. It's all about what he can get. Sex, love, money, gifts, favors..... And if you doubt that?
WHAT did he give YOU? A LOT OF DRAMA. Lose the loser... You will be replaced in 5 min ( he usually has a stable of women in the background lined up already)..... And.. Remember.. YOU cannot change him. YOUR love will make NO difference. The only lesson you are teaching him is that he can USE YOU and you will FORGIVE HIM so he can keep doing it over and over until you have NO self respect left. Don't be me. LOSE HIM.
If their actions do not support their words - you have your proof. I was engaged 3 times
to a player who had a million excuses as to why he couldn't treat me as well as he treated the girls he tried to bed ( during our many breakups)... Found receipts for roses, dinners, shows, clothes, etc. Etc. For OTHER women but he never took me out ONE TIME - not even a hot dog claiming he had no money. He also spent wads of money on Viagra - for OTHER women.
The last straw was when we were supposed to be married in a month - and I found him on TWO dating sites pretending to be SINGLE. He never answered his phone in my presence.. And one day - I looked at his computer. There he was on Yahoo Messenger with at least TEN women as "FRIENDS".... Who I knew nothing about. Ladies - trust your gut. It will never fail you. If it feels wrong.... IT IS.. A man who loves you will make you feel secure, protected, and valued. A player has no clue what it means to respect a woman. You know why? He has no respect for himself. His character is FLAWED. Liars are cheats. They go hand in hand. He's about WINNING the prize - he could give a flying fig newton about relationships. It's all about what he can get. Sex, love, money, gifts, favors..... And if you doubt that?
WHAT did he give YOU? A LOT OF DRAMA. Lose the loser... You will be replaced in 5 min ( he usually has a stable of women in the background lined up already)..... And.. Remember.. YOU cannot change him. YOUR love will make NO difference. The only lesson you are teaching him is that he can USE YOU and you will FORGIVE HIM so he can keep doing it over and over until you have NO self respect left. Don't be me. LOSE HIM.