My Boyfriend Cannot Get Over My Past Sexual History. Should I End It?

I myself have the same problem, but in reverse. I went into my first relationship with my boyfriend just nine months ago. I was 23 and he was 26. Suffice to say, it was a whirlwind affair. Being as we're both gay, I came into the relationship knowing that he would have experience that I wouldn't--I was a virgin when I first met him.

The problem didn't come up until I found out just how much experience it was. Jealousy played a big part of it, yeah, but it wasn't just that. I, myself, consider my body to be something special, something I would only share with someone I really cared about. He had sex numerous times with strangers. Always safe, mind you, but nonetheless, lots of sex.

Having said that, I know it's not my, or anyone else's, for that matter, place to judge anyone. But the situation changes when it's my boyfriend, you see? It's not someone walking on the street. It's someone I'm intimate with. I can't say I'm completely over the whole thing, but I'm well on my way. I guess what I'm trying to say is that if you think he's the one, stick with it. If he really is, he'll eventually get over it. Good luck!

Well, once the bell has been rung, you can't unring it. In other words, since you have told him, you can't go back to the place where you hadn't told him. I hate to say it, but if your boyfriend can't get beyond your past experiences, you should end it. It will never get better.What you need to learn from this, is to keep your past experiences to yourself. If the new guy asks, just tell him its in the past. And, don't' ask about his past sexual experiences.Besides, it makes for some mystery in the relationship.

Good Luck