Well, this may seem a little outrageous, but you could always ask them! However, guys are notoriously shifty and may not say what they feel. It really is basically a matter of wait and see.
Guys are fairly easy to work out - watch the behaviour, don't listen to the words.
I've always told my female friends that most men are essentially spaniels and they act accordingly. If you give them fuss and then take that fuss away, if they come running for more, they've been hooked, if they sit around sniffing themselves and looking about, forget them.
It's something that you learn as you get older, that relationships, as sad as it seems, are essentially a bit like a game, you have to learn the rules and how to play it.
Pay the guy attention, and watch his behaviour, if he starts to pay you attention, game on, if not, be a little more blatant, still not, then back off and see if he follows.
Guys are fairly easy to work out - watch the behaviour, don't listen to the words.
I've always told my female friends that most men are essentially spaniels and they act accordingly. If you give them fuss and then take that fuss away, if they come running for more, they've been hooked, if they sit around sniffing themselves and looking about, forget them.
It's something that you learn as you get older, that relationships, as sad as it seems, are essentially a bit like a game, you have to learn the rules and how to play it.
Pay the guy attention, and watch his behaviour, if he starts to pay you attention, game on, if not, be a little more blatant, still not, then back off and see if he follows.
