I know what you feel. I too have a boy who likes me too much and its taking a toll on me. Thats not the only thing though. He likes cuddling with me even though we arent an item at all. The only way to really get rid of him without hurting his feelings is to get your boyfriend to come pick you up one day and show him that you really are in love with someone else since obviously talking is not working. If you must pointing out reasons why it would never work out between you would not be overly heartbreaking for him. If he truly likes you then he has to learn to understand because you are the most important person in your life. TREAT YOURSELF LIKE A PRINCESS BECAUSE you ARE A PRINCESS!
Before any relationship can be assured,love must be reciprocated among you. It is often said that "love is an illness the loved one is the only medicine" so if you can't even find a reason to love him then let him know that you are not feeling for him. Make your reason obvious and understandable so that he will not hate you and plan how to hurt you. You can even make friends with him but let him and your love {your guy} meet up, so he knows you are 'taken'.
I'm going through the same thing right now, he hardly knows me and he is saying he loves me and to be honest I don't know weather or not I should give him a chance. I like him as a friend and stuff, but I seriously don't like him in that way. The best thing you can do is tell him how you feel first, then say look I don't like you in that way. You a great guy and all but maybe I'm not the one for you :) I'm going to have to tell him sometime soon too. Oh, and if things get creepy! Yes a restraining order is the way to go :D
There is an annoying boy that goes to my school. He is always staring at me. He also ran by my locker and said I love You. I finally stopped talking to him and I gave him the cold shoulder.
You are in a tough situation! This kind of guy becomes obsessed with what he sees as his own 'love object'! That is right! He must see you as an object and not as a person, and this means that he will want you as a possession, and not as someone with whom he can have a good strong relationship. Steer away from this ugly person, he is not well. If you have repeatedly told him to leave you alone, and he still does not, then it is time you sought help! Ask an older person to help you, or go to the police, and file a complaint about him. Once the Court gives you a restraining order, he will not be allowed to come close to you, and if he does, then he will have to go to jail! You have nothing to lose! Do this immediately!
It seems like this dude has some type of obsession over you. You have to be careful in this case because guys like him are crazy. Give him a warning...Tell him, look I already told you that I do not want to be with you, now if you don't take my warning then tell him that you are forced to go to a higher autority, which will be the police and get a warrant out on him...Trust me, he will leave you alone then...Because if you get a warrant out on him and he breaks it, then guess what? Ol dude is goin to jail.
Well there is this guy and my friends at school make fun of him and I do to but he always talks to me and looks at me directly in the eyes and fiddles but one day he saw me and my boyfriend kissing and he took a rager the next day he said I acually liked you and then stomed off and I was like dude take a chill pill and he was like why don't you! And then tried 2 kick me but I sprinted it luckly he wasent that fast so I didint get caught but I just told him I love jake and you know what I'm not scared of you just because I have a boy friend and he just stood there and then walkes off!! Woked 4 me hope it helps;)
I am having the same problem. I told the guy who liked me that I didn't like him like that but we could still be friends and told him not to get to excited over me
It's annoying, I asked this question because there is a REALLY annoying boy ion my school who badly has a crush on me. Just tell hi straight out like I did. It worked :)
