I Have Feelings For This Guy And I Shouldn't But I Cant Stop Thinking About Him What Should I Do?


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Swapna Reddy Profile
Swapna Reddy answered
Hi friend,if the character of that guy is good then tell your feelings to him and try to know his feelings on you  Iif you get a positive response from him,its better.  But don't feel depressed if the response is negative, because every thing happens for the good, even if we can't see that at the time.  Try to put your concentration on something else so that you can suppress your thoughts about him.
But let him know your feelings as early as possible
nida feria Profile
nida feria answered
Dear, just observe this guy. If he is good, tell him directly what you feel for him. Don't be ashamed.It's better to try than do nothing.Anyway there's no harm in trying..it is better to be frank than keep something in your mind without expressing your true feelings. If he likes you then go on ..if not leave it. Accept the truth that he's not meant for you. God prepared Mr Right for you out there. Be positive always.
Dipa Suresh Profile
Dipa Suresh answered
Why do you say, "Shouldn't"? Is he married or engaged? Feelings are something that we cannot control. If you already know that you are not supposed to think about this guy for whatever reason, then you must indeed be going through hell…

If at all possible, you could ask one of your close friends or relatives to have a talk with the guy, if he is free and available, and ask them to convey your feelings for him. If he reciprocates, then you would have attained your heart's desire.

If he doesn't, for whatever reason, then what you can do to stop thinking about him is to start a completely new activity, something that you have not tried before. It can be sewing, or skiing, or ice skating or even Para sailing. When you do this, your mind will be engaged in trying to learn the new skill, and you will gradually start to forget about this unattainable guy.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Love him anyway! That's what I'd do! Love is great!

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