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I've been liking a guy for some time but suddenly I don't really feel it anymore. Now I pretty much go meh when thinking about him, but sometimes I get concerned about how he's doing and still think about him. Do I still like him or what?

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Anonymous answered

I know exactly how you feel. You probably don't like him as much as you use to but you still have some feelings for him. After all you can't get over a crush just like that. Best of luck

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Lia Tan answered

Many people have been in this type of situation before and it's totally normal. When you first start to have a crush on someone, the feeling is totally exciting and you feel like you are totally in love with this person. This feeling is very normal and it's name is limerence. But then after a while, that feeling starts to die down and although you still feel attracted to this person, that sense of limerence is no longer there.

So the most likely explanation is that yes, you do still have feelings for him, but your feelings of limerence is gone. You are no longer in the first stages of having a crush and it's healthy that you aren't infatuated with him anymore. That's why just roll with how you're feeling and don't stress out about it too much.

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Coach Lee
Coach Lee commented
If we are talking about limerence, here is a video called, "What is Limerence?" and it addresses how the topic works: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uxtDBgc9Dws. Limerence usually fades over time unless companionship, commitment, and friendship are build underneath all of the fireworks of the chemical highs of limerence.

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