Just relax is the main thing- when I make out with my boyfriend I find he loves it when I start with really light kisses on his lips and then make my way down to his neck - again really gently. Remember there is a huge difference between kiss and suck - hickeys are no fun for anyone. Then when you start to pash, lick your lips slightly, not so they are slippery but just enough so they aren't dry. Then kiss his lips. When you use your tongue just poke it in gently and then take it out licking his lips slightly take a break every now and then but only for a few seconds, but when you do just stare deeply into his eyes, guys love that. And if you just do all of that it will all just work out in the end. I hope this helps.
Don't be nervous. It's super easy and once you do it, you'll love it. Don't hold back. Don't use too little tongue and don't use too much. Too little is maybe using 3 times and too much is, well, a lot. When it's over, maybe ask him and see what he liked and didn't like but don't get mad when he tells you, just take his advice and use it.
If you really love him, and he actually loves you then if you mess up, I'm sure he would not go spreading anything around if you happen to mess up. A good boyfriend should be able to understand. I mean, he could mess up to you know! All you have to do is keep going no matter what happens! You only live once girl!
There are different styles to making out as you will realise as the relationship progresses but for beginners, I would advise you to stick to the basics. Go slow; do not rush the kissing part. While kissing, it is important to know how to steer first. If you cannot steer, then you will hit the teeth. When you are ready for the special moment, try kissing a couple of times with your mouth closed, softly and partially open. Make sure your lips are moistened. Pay attention to the direction in which your partner tilts his head. This is important, because this can make him tilt his in the opposite direction. Also make sure, that you do not lean in too close, because if you both leaning in too closely, you will collide. Do not worry; it is not the end of the world. If you two do hit the teeth, have a laugh and say, "Oops sorry!" Chances are there if your partner has some experience of 'making out.' If you find out that your partner is experienced, do not make a big fuss. It is better that you are making out with someone who is practiced in his making-out skills.
Okay well I have a scenario to!! Me and my boyfriend want to make out for an anniversary and well neither of us have ever made out before so I'm sooo nervous and lost, but I want to make it good for both of us!! So please help!!!!! And to your make out question I'm lost too so don't feel too bad, I'm sur if he loves you he wont mind!!:D
if you are young, which I suspect is the case, don't hurry. When you begin dating, it is for the purpose of finding a life partner. Have lot's of friends and have fun together. your partner will likely come from among your friendships. Don't base your choice on sex or it is doomed from the start. common ground and interests first then when the time is right, you won't need any advice.
I had the same problem this year! I'm only 13 but no enough to help you. You can easily tell if a guy wants 2 kiss you. He stops doing what he's doing and stares at you. He starts 2 get close 2 you. Don't be nervous! I was sooooooo scared but I really lykd him and just for got everyhting and went with it. Let him do the work. Don't just stick your tounge in, they don't like that. Just gently and then pull it bak in2 urs and then bak in2 his. Guys like you more once you start making out.
Mkay well, if is at the movies: 1) cuddle, movethe armrest up & sit really close or sit on his lap (note: It may be harder or easier to kiss depending on your position) 2)kiss himo on the lips for about 30 seconds then open your mouth. 3)slowly put your tounge in( note: Keep your eyes closed the hwole time) 4)let your tounges meet. 5) play with eachothers tounges 5) continue until one of you pulls away
It's very easy. Your boyfriend/girlfriend might lean over and give you a quick peck on the lips and then they'll pull away for like 2 seconds and then come back for more...If you feel like you want to stop just pull away. Good luck ;]
