How Do You Tell A Boy You Want A Kiss Without Asking?

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Anonymous answered
How to ask a guy to kiss you?

This is a tough one, mainly because there aren't many guys who are really good at reading the signs of whether you want them to kiss you or not.  Short of having a neon sign saying 'ok, I'm ready for you to kiss me now' you might find that you have to take the reigns and make the first move!

If you don't feel comfortable with being the one to go straight in for the kiss, there are some small things that you can do to encourage him to kiss you.

1.  Sweep you're hair away from your face and over your shoulder and lean your head to expose your next, almost like you would if you wanted to tempt a vampire to bite your neck!  A lot of men find kissing your neck sexy and this will put the thought into their head.

2.  Lean quite close in, you could speak a little quieter so that they have to lean in to.

3.  When people want to be kissed they look at their partners' lips in anticipation, so make sure that you do this, so he definitely gets the message.

4.  When you are conscious that you want to kiss someone, you''ll probably find that you want to lick you lips in preparation, so don't stop yourself doing what you want to do naturally

5.  Lastly, you could smooth their eyebrows down or stroke their hair to ensure that their face is facing yours...

...and if they still don't get the hint, you can always be brave at this point and use your hand to draw a line down to their chin, and pull it towards your face...if not, you will have to hope that he gets the hint!

Here is a video I found on how to prompt someone to kiss you!

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Lena JH answered
Give him either flirty eyes or sexy eyes...touch him slyly ...if that doesn't work, look him straight in the eyes and lean in real close to his face like you were to kiss him, hold it for a few then smile cutely and pull back. He's going to want those lips!
muhammad Shoaib Ulla Ullah Profile
Thanks, but, it depends where you are. I prefer to come close to him, just talk softly and gently, looking in him the eyes, just thinking that he want your lips.... very slowly in a very nice tone..... be well dressed. Try to look sexy...... Show the intention that you are willing to be kissed only just by body language. Every man is very intelligent - he will definitely kiss... any where you want him to kiss you.
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Jacob Me answered
Ok I'm a guy, most guys want a kiss so just ask in a nice flurting way and he will probably say yes depending on what kind of guy he is.... I want my gf 2 kiss me because I'm a little shy but the only problem is that so is she...... If she asked it would just be no answer and I would kiss her.
Idk Noneofurbusiness Profile
I have been wanting to know the same thing. I just took the first step. I was leaving a party we were both at as I was giving him a hug good bye I gave him a litte peck on the cheek. Try that and see where it goes, thats what I'm doing.
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ray of light answered
Usually girls are shy to start kissing themselves. You can judge when your partner wanted to kiss you. When he comes close to you more than usual and have certain brightness in his eyes and look like more romantic, it means he wanted to kiss you.
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Rhianne Carew answered
Well, lean on your head on his shoulder and if he looks down at you stare into his eyes and lean towards him and kiss him lightly, stop and he will lean in if he wants to continue
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hallie okk answered
A couple weeks ago I was with a guy and I was pressured into kissing him, and I didn't enjoy it at all, and apparently neither did he, we broke up that day. So don't pressure him into it, maybe he is waiting for you to feel comfortable ....try to hint it to him that you don't mind if he makes that move, but MAKE SURE he wants to, I have no idea why he wouldn't, but you wouldn't want to be pressured into it so don't do it to him, believe me it sucks! -----good luck and have fun!!!
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Carissa Shore answered
Well look him in the eyes.  Open your mouth slowly.  Lightly bit your bottom lip.  Lean in, hold his hands, close your eyes then kiss him!  It really works!
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chloe mcinerney answered
Carm down this is what you should do push everyone out the way so its just you and him have good talk and then once the talk is over just say do you think we should kiss now because we have been going out for a long time now and see how it goes from there
never happened to me but to my 6 best friend
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Avery Garcia answered
Wait for a good private moment (no parents or guardians or adults or people or pets in the room) and try make the conversation ure having based around it or something and lean in if he doesnt want to he will lean back if he does he will lean in or if he is confused he will just stay there
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Anonymous answered

I've always been an upfront creature which has scared a few guys away who weren't able to handle my honesty. I would just ask hims if he wants to kiss me or if he'd ever kiss me. If he says yes, then I'd ask what was stopping him. But if you do not want to be bold...you can hug him and when you are releasing him, look in his eyes and have your face close. It might work.

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wasim waz answered
Start eating something an say to a boy tat he's got something on he's lips and tat he should clean it off, he will try to clean it but there is actually nothing there, then ask him if you could help him, if he says yes then just kiss him and say it is clean now but if he says no then I don't know
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Angela Smith answered
Well, 5th grade is a little early to be thinking of kissing.  Why don't you start slow?  First get close to him by finding a common interest, or simply by being extra nice and funny.  Then if you think he feels the same way, ask him out.  There way be a quick kiss to follow.... But why don't you wait until at least 7th or 8th grade before a full-on kiss!

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