You will be lucky if he doesn't get a restraining order against you. His wife is a lot more important then you and you are acting foolishly.
Why does he make his wife sound more important then me? Then why did he tell me he was unhappy then?
A married man is a liar., his wife is better than you, just back off
He's confused. Or a liar. Anyway, your relationship is going nowhere so you might as well just give it up.