How Will I Ask My Boyfriend If He Still Loves Me?

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Lena JH answered
Asking him only if he loves you won't improve your relationship. It seems to me that you guys need to talk, and not only about loving each other. You guys may be having long distance relationship issues. Tell him that you feel like you two are distant and that it's bothering you. It can be a start to change for the better.
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Hey! I am having the same issues.My bf and I live 3 hours away from eachother and all I can do is trust him. Which is good, but sometimes I don't think that he wants to talk to me. Sometimes I don't think that he feels the same about me. But I would just talk to him personally about it. Just ask him if he still feels the sam about you and if he still loves you the same. Just don't keep it bottled up that makes things worse just talk to him I am sure that he will understand.
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Thank you for sharing with me your problem. We indeed have the same issue. It makes me feel then that "I am not alone." We met yesterday and he hated my attitude of being jealous with the girl he is in relationship with on his facebook page. It is an insult for me though that he invited me as a friend yet he is with the other girl. So sad, he even tried to make some sweet moment with me, when we were together.
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You can tell him... What would you do if I died...here he can tell you what he feels if you are not next to him...and here you will know from his words if he really loves you or no...
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Well don't ask him like face to face if he still loves you. Just pay attention to the little things that he does or used to do, and see what happens.
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I think it's better if you ask him personally if he still love you the same way, so that you know what to do..because its hard to wait for something, specially if your waiting for nothing..
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I can understand it is difficult to feel loved if he does not seem to be giving effort in making the relationship work.  Tina Tessina, one of my favorite authors, suggests looking at relationships like a tennis match where both parties return the ball.  You do not always have to be the one who does the chasing, the calling, etc.  I would suggest you read her article entitled Boundaries.  I hope it helps.
 
 
 
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I think it's more important for you to learn to love yourself.  It's a funny thing; If you love yourself, then you become more lovable.  When you love yourself, then whether or not he or anyone else loves you, loses it's hold on you.
If you are invested in whether or not someone loves you and it defines you, then your problem isn't whether your boyfriend loves you, it whether YOU love you.
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Do you feel his love ? If so , hearing the words should not matter.
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When we're together, i can feel his love but when we're apart... I don't.
It seems that constant communication is not his priorities in a relationship
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roniece wright answered
Tell him that your not doubting his love for you its just that you wanted to hear it just to refresh your memory on it.....
 
 
 
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malaika makamo answered
You have to ask him because he is your boyfriend and if you love him you will so that you can know if he does
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Its always goood to    hear from him what he really feels for you.
My bofriend's currently on police training,we dating for four month now but had not indulge an any sexual bofriend's is goood for me but at the same time I bofriend's insecure
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How you will feel if your boyfriend cheat on you?
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I feel being ignored and for me it is the saddest thing that may happen in a relationship, when one feels ignored. We seldom talk personally, he still remains very good in teaching me more about life such as cooking. He says I love you but then I happened to check his facebook and there I saw he is in relationship with other woman coming from his hometown. But he once told me that, if i love someone I will not let you be with me at the public places nor to let you meet my guy frends, so confusin

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