How Do You Know If He Loves You, If He Doesn't Say It?

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lakeesha Hennessy Williams Profile
A man who loves you will certainly act differently around you, but the signs to look out for will depend on what your relationship is like already.

Here are my tips on how to figure out what a guy is feeling for you:

How to know if he loves you so?
If you're in a relationship with the guy in question, then you might not be able to tell whether he loves you unless he tells you.

Guys have a way of being rather vague around the whole subject of 'love' when they're in a relationship. Some are afraid of commitment, whilst others simply don't know what they want.
The best way to tell whether a guy you're dating really loves you is by the way he kisses you.

If he kisses you often and passionately, but also likes giving you little kisses (along your neck, on your shoulders) then this is a sign that he loves you.

So, in short, the answer is just like that Cher song... It's in his kiss.

Does he love me?

If you want to know whether a guy you're not actually dating has feelings for you, you can probably get a clue from the way he behaves around you.

If he gets nervous and jittery around you, that's a good sign you're driving him to distraction.

You may also be able to pick up on a certain 'energy' or 'chemistry' that exists between you.

If he goes out of his way to make sure you notice him, this is another way to tell whether he's got romantic feelings for you.
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Disabled World answered
He will be scared of you, and will seem to be careful when he talks scared of making mistakes.

You may catch him gazing at you and avoiding eye contact as soon as your eyes meet his. Basically if he loves you he will be scared to receive you, scared of what you think of him.

When he is around you he will try to act confident yet sometimes try to avoid you, but that is only because he would be scared to scare you off.
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Melissa R answered
Guys have a love language that is totally different from ours. Most relationship experts say that a guy will share with you what is most valuable to him.

For example, most guys tend to cherish their "guy time" so if he spends more time with you than with his buddies, he's trying to tell you something.

Some guys have a hard time expressing their feelings in words, especially in person. Try emailing him with a quick "I love you" and see how he responds.

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