Why Is My Girl So Jealous?

Jealousy derives from insecurity/the fear of loss. It is often the product of a feeling of not "measuring up" or being "good enough", and is based in fear.

There may be legitimate reasons why your girl may be afraid of losing you to someone else. To better understand, you need to examine if your behaviors would cause this kind of fear in a "reasonable" person, or if your girl's fears actually stem from a lack of her own confidence which were already present or exist. Remember that you can only change your own behaviors, but you cannot address what is internal to someone else. You can and probably should discuss the matter with your girl openly and without accusation in the spirit of understanding the underlying issues better so they can be resolved.

When women love you. They LOVE you. So if any female is coming into the picture and you and the female are just friends plus you guys seem like you r having a good time, that'll worry your gurl because no offense but most men weakness is temptation. Women are aware of that and she is afraid that you would probably cheat. Women like to be the important one in a man's corner. They like to feel like a rose or something special and when they see you with another girl it devastates them. Put it like this. Men know how men are when it comes to playing games with women. Women know the nature of other women better than we do, so she make think a another woman would try to seduce you and you would fall into the trap. So talk to her and let her know she's the special one, and that she is your diamond and queen. Women get flattered by compliments. If the tables were turned,  men get jealous of women's close male friends because they know how other men are when it comes to women. If you r not like that, then that's cool, but women are more emotional with their mate when it comes to love than men are. So good luck and just talk to her and make her feel special. Buy her roses and a nice card.

She may be jealous because she doesn't want to share you with anyone. No woman could allow this.

She is giving you advise because she cares about you. Don't put your ear on people's talk. What he says and what she says. Just follow your heart and if you love the girl then you should be together. May be people are jealous of your relationship.

Jealousy is often a precursor to a manipulative/controlling and or abusive relationship. Jealousy isn't about love; it is about control. If you are not show interest in others but she gives you a bad time about talking to other girls and wants you to constantly reassure her, run for your life!