Why Is He So Jealous? Help Me Find Answers Please!

Did he just start this type of actions today? From experience, I found my mate treated me like that because he was afraid I would be doggish as he was. If you cannot handle it, speak with him and if it does not change, LEAVE. Those type of people are dangerous and your phone is ringing, The way you decide to answer will affect your future. They say it is love, and I say it is ......well, think about it and make a decision to promote your life.

If you are going to nursing school then you are a smart woman. Use the rest of your brain and DROP HIM!!! He is a porn addict. He has a poor self esteem and also thinks very low of you. He is bringing you down. Why would you want to be with him? I have been married for 25 years and my husband and I have never called each other names even in the worst of disagreements. It's because we love each other and try not to hurt the other. He has no respect for you. If you marry him and have children, they will not respect you either. Like I said, you are a smart woman. You deserve better. I have a friend who was married for 18 years to someone like you are describing. She was miserable the whole time. He was into porn and insisted that their sex life would be like what he was watching. Well anyone in their right mind knows that sex can be hot and steamy, but not every day of every week. He sounds like a real jerk!

I have known someone who 'traced' his girlfriends actions very closely.  There was the issue of control. Some of it cultural.  In your respone to Gsharon710 however, his use of certain terminology sends up some red flags...as does his focus...would should be mainly YOU (if I understand your bio correctly.)  A good relationship is difficult enough itself at times. You have a very respectable title and healthy expectations.  These are valuable in that you 'attend' to the needs of others perhaps more than a doctor can. I think a neutral person/friend would be invaluable here. BTW I'm not shooting down the control issue---as long as the person doing the controlling is doing it to help him make the best decisions he can in your behalf (unselfishly).

My husband and I hav ben together since I was 14 and now I'm 21. He has cheated numerose times with my closest friends but this was before we were married so I forgave him. Now everyday it seems I have to deal with him saying "there is something goin on between me and another guy" but it is always someone. I'm a honest person and care enough about his feelings not to hurt him and I tell him that and he still accuses. Also, I can not even hang out with my sister or my friends or I'm doing something wrong in his eyes. How do I deal with this..he is pushing me away?