How Much Garbage Should A Wife Put Up With Before She Ends The Marriage? Lying, Cheating, Alcoholism, Keeping Secrets Are Some Of The Things Wife Is Dealing With. The Husband Says He Sorry But Keeps Repeating The Same Thing Over And Over.
Sounds like too much already. Men don't change, as women would like to believe. If they are young, then their is little hope, but not a great deal, trust me. Once a liar, cheater, whatever, always one.. Get out while you can. Children don't need to be in that situation. If you can't stand it, imagine how the child feels. Just don't tolerate it, get yourself a real life for you and your children while you still can. Tell daddy to get new doormat, that you're tired of being one.
It depends on your reasons for staying. Are you staying for the kids or to get a portion of his pension? Are you afraid of being alone? Before you decide to leave pay off all of your bills and save a lot of money.Life is short so live. You have to love you and realize that you deserve to be happy. If abuse of any kind has occurred, run. If you are dependent upon the spouse and you want to leave, you must disconnect emotionally from the person. He is not sorry. Or maybe he is sorry. A sorry excuse for a husband. Do not give him your youth. Go and be happy with or without him.
If he keeps repeating his behavior, then he's not truly sorry. When one says their sorry it means that they have learned from their mistake, so they won't do it again. Evidently he hasn't learned not a darn thing. What he has learned is that saying sorry has kept his wife from leaving him, but the marriage needs to end now. The wife should not have to put up with his bs, she deserves a fulfilling, happy, successful life just like any other person and it seems like he's just dragging her down with him. My advice is for her to leave asap even if he acts like he's gone through some major transformation. Also-- no child deserves to be exposed to such a negative environment.
