Hay anonymous I ain't married but it should go both ways. Treat each other with respect and share everything with each other and just be honest and trust each other and your marriage will work out . Hope this helps u. :)
What is a real marriage? How should a husband and wife treat each other? What is the man and women's role in a marriage?
Two PEOPLE respecting each other,
and themselves, and the love that brought
them to this point.
You have asked three questions. My answers, in order, are 1. Commitment. 2. Respect. 3. Cooperation.
Having said that there's a parable about a Bulgarian peasant who, on their wedding day, was taking his new bride home on his old cart. They came to a rough section of road and the horse refused to go on so the peasant climbed down and led him through. He got back aboard and said to the horse, "That's once."
At the next rough patch the horse balked again so the peasant took his rifle from under the seat and shot the horse dead. His bride was horrified and said, "You monster! How could you do such a thing?"
And the peasant turned to her and said, "That's once!"
I think Didge is on the green and very close to the cup.
Commitment is essential. It's hard to go on the cruise of marriage when you insist on being tied to the dock so you can get off if the seas get too rough. (And if you understand marriage, you will realize you have all the necessary life preservation devices on board.)
(Incidentally, commitment was behind the Pope's comment a few months ago on the possible problem with some Catholic marriages---the lack of intent by one or the other of the parties to the "till death to us part' concept.)
If in fact you have that commitment, the necessity for dignity, respect, and a whole host of other values (some of which the partners may be initially unfamiliar with) become understandable necessities and incredible opportunities for growth as individuals and as a couples.
Love is nature's psychotherapy.
Marriage is the best way to grow and foster the type of love that is necessary in a marriage.
Two adult human beings can usually have a good marriage.