A. My immediate response when reading your question is - what are you afraid of? Jealousy is all about insecurity and fear. You wouldn't act this way if you were sure of yourself and your appeal to men. You seem to expect them to leave you or play up or in some other way, deceive you. Unfortunately, these expectations can be become self-fulfilling. So far, your behaviour has cost you some lost opportunities and possibly happy relationships. I would say you probably need counselling to help you understand your feelings in this matter and be free of the green-eyed monster. If you take responsibility and not look to blame your partners or project your fears onto them, it'll be a good start. Insecurities tend to go way back and stem from childhood experiences so they can't entirely be fixed rationally. In fact, jealousy is totally irrational and not based in fact. Try to stop being suspicious and looking for trouble, practise trust and it might very well pay dividends.
