Remember (for your boyfriend); 'Don't be silly, cover your willy!'
Since you already said that your feelings are mutual and you want to do this ill just get straight to the point. It may hurt. KEY term in that, MAY. The hymen breaking is also the start of your first period. So if you've already gotten your period it probably wont hurt AS much. The most pain will come from the intrusion of his body parts into yours because its not used to that happening. Like the other comment said, have him take it slow until you feel comfortable with the feeling. NOT ALL GIRLS experience pain, and I know that from experience. I didn't experience any sort of pain when I loss my virginity. Its different for each girl. You DONT HAVE TO BE on birth control, its a precaution to preventing pregnancy. I would recommend it but you don't need it. HAVE HIM WEAR A CONDOM! If he doesn't want to, they make girl condoms, use it. All in all, I hope your first time is a wonderful experience for you. Be smart and be safe!
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