Me and my boyfriend are both 15 and recently we started talking about sex, i'm a virgin and he isn't, he won't pressure me and will wait till i'm ready and i think i am, what should i do?

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Annabel Barrett Profile
Annabel Barrett answered
Well, I was 12 when I lost my virginity, and I regret it so much. I am now 15 and I have a wonderful boyfriend who loves me and we have been together for two and a half years. We do have sex with each other, but we also do other things like day trips out, bowling, cinema.. That kind of thing, and we spend a lot of time with each other. Just make sure that you definitely love each other, and don't rush into it.. Make sure you are definitely ready. I can't stress enough that you MUST use protection! I know that a lot of people say to wait until you're ready, but if you feel that you are, and you love each other, then go for it, just make sure that you definitely know it's the right decision :D
stacey michelle Profile
stacey michelle answered
If I was you I would wait until you're legal to do that kind of thing together, if he really loves you then he will wait but if you don't or you can't wait then at least be safe and use protection.
Jakie Sage Profile
Jakie Sage answered
I would advise not to do it. Save sex for marriage. If he really loves you, he'll wait and prove himself to you. He doesn't own you. Therefore your body is not his. Have a pure body for your husband one day and make him feel special. If you wait until marriage I guarantee it will be worth it and you'll have no regrets. Really consider this. It's not worth it.
Maddie Profile
Maddie answered
You should only do that if it's a committed relationship and you might consider spending your life with him cause when that happens there will be a bond between you and that one boy forever. My advice is keep it till you're married but not everyone thinks of it that way.
Arthur Wright Profile
Arthur Wright answered
If you think you are, youre not even close to being ready so wait at least another couple years as whenever in doubt, don't do it as youll regret it for a lifetime
Alexis Marie Profile
Alexis Marie answered
I can't tell you how Important it is for you to wait! I'm 13 and one of my best friends that's 14 Just got pregnant. I'm happy for her but I feel like she threw her life away. Babies are a blessing no matter when they come but she's still too young. Would you be prepared to get pregnant. And think about all the STD's. I know you probably think you're ready but think about all the consequences before you do something you regret (:
Annie Liang Profile
Annie Liang answered
I think you are to young, and you should be ready at like the age 24 (done with school) also when your to young there is like a 65% there is going to be a problem
roaming insomniac Profile
Be on birth control AT LEAST one month BEFORE you have sex. Talk to your mom about it, and if you CAN'T talk to your mom, you ARE NOT READY!!

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