HELP I'm 15 and me and my bestfriend have been like talking on the DL And I'm still a virgin any advice I really wanna loose it to him I feel like I'm ready but I'm nervous that he won't like my body or that I'm not good?
Run that by your parents and see what they have to say.
Use good reliable birth control.
No matter what we say you're going to have sex with him.
Use good reliable birth control.
As AH said discuss your thoughts with your father.
Use good reliable birth control.
Make sure you have his name correctly, just in case you need to put it on the birth certificate.
Use good reliable birth control.
Be prepared to raise your child(ren) alone. Hopefully you'll have only one. 👶👶👶👶
Use reliable birth control.
NO
Unless you are prepared to accept the responsibility of pregnancy - since NO form of birth control is 100% effective - you should not have sex. And NO 15-year-old is ready for that responsibility.
Why are you talking on the "DL"? If you really was mature enough for a sexual relationship you would not have to talk on the "DL." You have NO clue the emotions that go into a sexual relationship ESPECIUALLY with a first timer AND being a female whether it is "experimental" or for "pleasure" or "just because he is your friend and you can not go wrong with a friend right?" It does not matter. You need to wait till you are more mature mentally.
The word is no and no. Sure when I was 15 I knew it all. But I was talked to in a very frank manner by someone MUCH older than I whom I trusted very much. He explained a lot to me in a non threatening factual manner. I admit I wasn't totally convinced at first but after thinking things over and looking at others my age who were blindly ruining their lives I learned from their mistakes and walked a very careful path. Sure I have made a ton of mistakes in my life but I was able to use them as a learning tool. Taking a chance on having a child is not a prudent method to learn. I assure you, unless you have waited and are totally prepared emotionally and physically, your first time will be the most negative experience you will ever have. Grow up first.
Just from reading the information in your question, I would say you are guaranteeing that your first experience is going to be much less than satisfying.
In a year or two, you will understand what I have just said.
This could very well be a decision that,
you will regret the rest of your life.
The truth is ( "good things come to thoughs who wait").
Stupid reason and this is only infatuation and I can guarantee that once you give him your Virginity, he will be gone as that's what young boys do here. Youll only be a notch on his belt and wont even know youre alive so wait several more years before giving away what you can give only once. Also Boys will and do lie so he will tell and promise you anything to get what he wants so don't fall for it. Wait a few years and see if the relationship passes the test of time and youll be glad you did and you don't need this kind of reputation at 15. Enjoy life here and worry about the sexual things later. Good luck
As yourself at 15 are you ready to stay home every night with a screaming baby while your friends are going out enjoying themselves?. Are you ready to deal with a sexually transmitted disease that you may carry in your body for the rest of your life?.
Are you ready to have sex for the first time with a boy that I can guarantee is not mature enough to have a responsible relationship with you, how are you going to feel afterwards when he's bragging to his friends and you get the label of being easy?
It seems like a long way off but wait, wait until you are ready for a special relationship with someone who will treat you with respect and who really loves you. You're going to lose your self respect and feel cheap if you just have sex for the sake of having sex. Having sex and making love are not the same thing. Don't shortchange yourself because it seems to be the thing to do among your friends.
I promise you, absolutely promise you that you'll be glad you waited.
