I'm In 6th Grade, Should I Kiss My Boyfriend And Have My First Kiss Or Wait Till I'm Older?

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I kissed my bf and I'm in 6th grade. He wanted to kiss me a long time but he can't coz he's to much of a coward! And so I just went for it and now we kiss each other a lot and we hug a lot coz we always walk home together. If your ready then go for it. Trust me at first I was so scared or I felt weird but after it was worth it. And just a tip don't do sloppy kiss or too much tongue kisses on first kiss. Coz its uhh...    /hope I helped ;)
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KISS HIM!!! It is the most romantic thing ever. I wasn't allowed to so my bf and I snuck out in the playground and kissed. My first kiss litterly lasted 1min. Now I kiss him all day long. I love it. We just don't want to get pregnant till if we get married. Rate please!
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I love my bf too . And I kissed him before. I'm in 6th grade and after school we would hang out in the park. One day we were doing the same thing but he started to give me the mood. You know what I mean? And then he came closer and closer. If you really love him you should do what I did too.
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maddie hattfield commented
I think love is a superstrong word and is al lil too much 4 me..like ill say i like youh soo much but itl take a while 4 me to love u!
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If I were in your position, I would first, think about it really hard: Ask yourself  "How do I feel about him?" "How does he feel about me?"  "Do I really want him to be my first kiss?" "Am I really serious about him?"
These are the questions I asked my self when I was in this position.. I ended up being with my first kiss for almost 8 yrs. I started with him when I was 12 and when I was 20, We separated. But we remain really good friends.
Just go with the flow, after you ask your self these questions, you'll know what you want to do and if you don't then, I would just act on your feelings. You'll get in that heart thumping situation where you'll go in for a kiss. It's one of the most exciting things you'll ever have to face. Just remember not to be in a big hurry. You don't want to go too far and end up pregnant or doing something you'll regret for the rest of your life! Hope that helped! :)
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Well I am i the 6th grade and i am inviting him to my birthday party and I never had my first kiss yet and i really really love him and i think we will b 2gether 4 a long time and so does he. And we both really bad want 2 kiss each other but since we arent allowed @ scool i am inviting him 2 my party i need some adivce can u help me?
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What i think is that u should kiss him because its your berly first time am in 5th grade and i like this boy in 6th grade and am thinking he also like me what should i do he loves me or not shold i tell him to go out with me
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Girl let me tell you  you need to go ahead and get that kiss before it is  2 l8te. : )
 
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I was in 6th grade when I first kissed my boyfriend, and it was amazing, something I will never forget, it was me and him in our local park, we were talking and sunddenly BAM is happened, wasnt akward at all, age, how long your relationship has lasted, doesnt matter, talk to him and ask him wether hes ready, your time will come :)  GOODLUCK
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I'm not going to lie am as well in that exact position right now me and my boyfriend have skipped everything includeing holding hands and hugging  make sure you do these things befor you kiss her because you don't want it to feel awquard after the kiss

I am 12 and ive been dating sense 4th too but just today he said he will kiss me and I said I don't think I'm ready considering we havent hugged or heled hands ....so make sure you do these things first
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Im in 6th grade and me and my bf have held hands hugged walked each other home and all that stuff and we both want to kiss but we're not aloud to what do i do!?!? But i think u should kiss him!!!
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Well I'm in the 6th grade too and we just had our first kiss on 3-19-10 at a dance so if you guys go to dances then you should do it there and you know lead up to it by holding hands slow dance cheek kiss talk alone and do whatever it takes to make you and your boyfriend comfortable. Maybe make a slow dance line then you all just start kissing and sure enough your boyfriend wouldn't want to be called chicken and then go with the flow and kiss you too. Fireworks will go off, you will stick your foot up the world will stop and it will be a complete fairy tale.
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I'm in 6th too and I had my first kiss about a week ago and don't rush it, just wait until your ready. Also, try this-look into a mirror and say-I love .../whatever his name is. Also, don't rush the kiss!it's awesome.

Hope this helps!
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I am in going into eighth grade, and I am in the same position as you. I really like my boyfriend, and we have not kissed yet, and whenever I see him, I have to fight the urge to kiss him because I know he is not ready for it, or at least not ready for him to be the one to start it. I tricked him, by having one of my friends text him, and he said that if I kissed him he would kiss me back, but I still can't. So what I guess I am saying is that you should go for it. IF you are going out then I think he wants to kiss you, and he might just be nervous to start it. Just try asking him to kiss you or something, and sometimes that works. Well, it worked for one of my friends anyway, so just try it.
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Go for it I had my first kiss in about 4th but with a boy I didn't really like lmao,  I know how you feel though,my boyfriend is the best and we love ratchet other ho bits, but he is nervous about us kissing !   Just take it slow and you will know you'll look in watch others eyes and you'll know trust me !   Miss helpful xxx
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Listen I'm a 6th grader too, if you want to know weither you should kiss your boyfriend or not thats up to you my best advice to you would be for you to sit down and think really hard about it because you don't want to waist your first kiss on some guy that your not sure that you like. If you really really like this guy and he really really likes you then go for it. But if your going out with him because your just happy to have a boyfriend don't do it because your going to end up waisting it. If I where you I'd wait because I'm pretty sure there is some one out there that will want to kiss you when your BOTH ready and doesn't ask or tell you to kiss them.
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Annie Malcolm answered
I think it's ok to. I had my first kiss(es) in 5th grade, but I made a mistake. Everybody found out about the kisses and I felt really trampy, even though they were just little pecks. Plus, it took the specialness out of it to and I regretted it. So go right ahead, but I cation you. Some, not all, guys, will try and show off by telling their friends things, and exaggerate it. Hope you do the right thing.
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Nhung Tran answered
Go for it girl, it's the time of your life to have your kiss, if you don't kiss now you would never know when you get another chance to be asked for a kiss from a boy!!!!!!
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Umm..  I don't know. I'm in 6th grade and I didnt have my first kiss with my boyfriend yet..  Although he kissed me..  :D but its a pretty goof felling when yu get kissed because its from soemone yu love  :P
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Don't rush in to any thing, as long as you are both very comfortable with each other no pressure
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You can ask that question to anyone and get a different answer each time. Naturally you will like the answer better if it is really what you want to hear and you will less likely like the answer that you don't want to hear. So what I have to say to you is you are absolutely much too  you to be even thinking about this. And the people who are telling you to go ahead and you may not find another boyfriend later is so wrong!!! That is so so not true!!! If you take those young years and go around kissing and so on... And eventually that will lead to other things... Then by the time you are 18 or 19 then all the boys will know you are an "easy ----" (you know what) and the only guys that will be really attracted to you are ones who are only interested in one thing and you know what that is too!!! If you want to grow up to be respected and have a wonderful relationship with a nice fellow then take your time and use your head. I am sure you are a beautiful young girl and I would hate to see you pressured into something that you are not ready for by your peers!!! Take your time and you will be so happy that you did when you get older!!!
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I'm in the same position and I'm debating weather to kiss him or not but at my school we have dances and they play slow songs so write in the middle of the last song where going to kiss.  But we have already hugged and held hands.  Make shore that you have held hands and hugged first hope I helped.
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I would wait... Your first kiss is one you're going to want to remember forever. You won't remember it from the sixth grade. Trust me. I don't remember mine & I really wish I'd waited. Just to make the memory a lil more special.
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I think that you should wait until you both are ready...I'm only in 7th grade and I just had my first kiss last year.  I know it seems sooooooo scary, but really its not.  Go ahead and take my advice, maybe it'll help you:)
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Actually, my bf wants to, but whenever weer together everyone is near us and I want my kiss to be special.....
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I was afraid to kiss my boyfriend for my first kiss and I'm in 7th grade but trust me kiss him now its the most amazing this ever (:
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Sure If you both feel comfortable you should go for it. I'm in 6th grade to and there is lots of boyfriends and girlfriends kissing =)
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I'm in the exact same situation expect me and my boyfriend hugged I don't know what to do either does anyone know what I can do pleas HELP ME!!!!!!
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Well am in 6th grade i love this guy in my class he is hot and we whet out he said he wantes to kiss me and am not ready what should i do?
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Should we go to a movie of wat
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Well, I'm in 6th grade too and ive been wondering the same thing.....I think your ready...I think I am too
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You should kiss him ...c what it feels like...den if it doesnt feel good den wait till your older
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You should kiss him he will now then that you like him a lot and you never will let him go
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Hi, I'm in seventh going into eighth. I also have a bf, but I'm THIRTEEN!!! And I'm still not ready to kiss him,but he's ready to kiss me. We hold hands, cuddle, it together, we even hug. So take it slow, you'll know for sure when the moment's right. You might want to wait until you're a bit older, but you can kiss him whenever you're ready! ;)p I hope that I've been a great help, thanks for listening to my suggestion! !
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I'm in 6th too
there is a couple in my class that kisses when we get to work in groups behind the desks when the teacher is working at her desks and the teacher lets us get in groups or partners
sadly my boyfriend is in 7th and I don't know if your bf is in the same class
but when you feel the time is right you should go for it
me and my bf have been taking it VERY slow
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Ok just to let  you guys know, I'm a guy xD. Anyway, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a couple days now and the second I said yes when she asked me o ut she kissed and hugged me, now everyday in school we kiss, what should I do???
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Hey I'm in sixth grade and I just started goin out like 3 days ago.  She is my first girl friend and I don't know what I should do.  She really likes me and I like her but we are both really shy around eachother.  Should I make the first move?
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I'm in 6th grade. Me and my boyfrieind of 2 years kissed at the end of 5th grade. We dated all 5th grade , all summer and he just broke up with me like the 5th week of 6th grade. I still like him but he oviously doesnt like me anymore. I feel like I wasted my first kiss on him. I love him, always will but when I see him in the hall I  feel hatred!! I don't know y....but I'm trying to go out with his best friend 2 make him jealous. I know thts low but his friends hot and a girls got to do what a girls got to do...
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I kno that u wasted your time n all that stuff but going out with hiz best friend thats so desgusting so never do that
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Me and my bf were textin and he wanted 2 kno if I wanted 2 kiss him at da park da next day I said you but da next day I had 2 bring my tattle tail bro so we didnt kiss. 3 days l8r we broke up after he said I loveu 4 da 1st time. So I'm happy I didnt waist my 1st kiss on him. So if you think you guys will last a very long time then kiss him. If not then you shouldnt or if you think it will be akward afterward. Don't rush I'm goin into 7th grade and still havent had my 1st kiss. But don't end up prego or goin 2 far. And don't get caught,lol
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roniece wright answered
Well if you and this dude have been going out for at least 48 hours I say yea that if he wants to kiss you then kiss him back! It's not like your having sex it's not a crime to kiss!!!!

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If you know for sure you're ready then you'll be ready. Don't push it. Its not really the matter of age, just the matter of readiness
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I want to kiss my boyfriend, but I'm just afraid of getting into trouble with my mom. Where would I do it?
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Ummm like say ur going to your friends house and go to the back of the vbuildign of your school were no oone can see you and then kiss him and never tell ur mumm till ur like 18 then u move out and she do a thing a bout it anymore
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Well first asked your self if you are ready 4 it and if you are then go 4 it I tried it n it was the most wonderful thing ever so if your ready 4 it go 4 it  if not tell him if he could wait
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I was in the exact same situation with my bf. Outside one day after school, I kissed him and now we kiss a lot. Trust me just go for it!1
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Yeah! I think 6th grade and up should kiss if you have been going out for at least 2 weeks.
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Audrey Stacy answered
Go  ahead you don't have to hold hands or hug thats just regular friends do so go ahead kiss the boy!!!!I'm in the 6th grade to and I had my first kiss in the 2nd grade.and we are currently not together because I had to move but I think we would have been together if I did not move.
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When you both are ready you'll know,and if he's pushing you 2 kiss him he's not the 1.
If you guys  do want 2 kiss each other don't go 2 far you don't want 2 end up pregnant.
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I kissed in 5th grade (the end of 5th grade) and I'm mature for my age...your not too young. Tons of my friends have kissed. I'm in 6th grade now and I havent kissed any one since 5th grade
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I'm in 7th grade and my bf is in 8th!! I like him a lot but I am afraid he is going to push me into kissing him. I'm don't know what to do!! He is a great guy but we have only been dating for a 4 days. His friends try to make us kiss and make me jealous about them being in a room with other girls on a field trip.
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Before you guys kiss you should have already hugged held hands walked each other home and that type of stuff cause if you kiss him your relationship is going to fast thats like hugging a random dude you just met but never shook hands its wierd you get what I'm sayin right??
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You should wait till you are older... And more mature... Most people go past kissing... And since you are in 6th grade, it wouldn't be a good idea. But good luck <3!
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I'm in that situation rite now and I want but I don't want because once your first kiss is gone I'll mcr get it back
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I'm in 6th grade but my first kiss was with someone who was my bestfriend at the time but we had already gone out this summer but he ended up being my first hug and my first kiss he is awesome and I know more about him then his girlfriend now. And now he can't kiss me or hug me because his girlfriend wont let him and to make every thing worse he lives right done the block and he used to have something so strong he would kisss me for at least four mississippi second and hug me all the time.
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Well if he is your boyfriend then of course kiss him don't make fun of him that would risk your togetherness and if you kiss he he might feel weird but if you kiss make it special
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Kiss him he is your boyfriend. Who cares what other people think he is your boyfriend.
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Umm I think you should just kiss him! There's nothing wrong about it:) ha I kissed my first boyfriend and it was the best thing ever.
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Annie Love answered
No offense and all but I've learned from my mistakes and I say don't kiss him
you are way to young and all the people that are telling you to kiss him are out of their minds
so I'm saying don't kiss him. Unless you want to be as pathetic like all of us who made the same mistakes you are going to make by kissing him.
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I'm in sixth grade to and a few weeks ago we had our monthly dance and they play slow songs so we decited to kiss rite in the middle of it... So I say go for it if you feel comfortable around him and he feels comfortable around you go for it ... Just make sure and think it though and sooner or later your going to have to have your first kiss so why can't it be now!    Good luck
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I was just like you, until today. My boyfriend really wanted to kiss me, but I only let him kiss me on the cheek. Yesterday, at school, he tried to kiss me on the lips, but I turned my head so that he would miss, because I was kind of scared. I suddenly felt really bad. I texted him and told him I was sorry, then he wrote back, "prove it." The only choice I had was to kiss him today. 

During passing period, he was walking by and he grabbed my hand, pulled me closer, looked at my eyes, and kissed me! I was so nervous, but I liked it! It turned out good and we kissed again after school. Just saying, I am a 6th grader as well. I suggest you kiss him because you are going to regret it if you don't.

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I'm in the same position 2! I new this boy since first grade nd we go out. We go 2 different schools so I don't c him a lot so the next time I c him I'm going 2 kiss him! GOOD LUCK!
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Wait sweetie!! It means so much more when your older and you are more mature....you don't want to end up regretting anything
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Do it now I'm in 6th grade 2 and my bf kiss just if you do it at skool do not get caught
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I don't know but I got zap to kiss my boyfriend but I won't so I don't know but if you feel like you are really you can kiss him
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minnie mouse answered
Just kiss him it is yo choice but if you don't kno ask yo mom when she had he first kiss them make yo choice
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You should kiss him. I'm in the exact same situation and we both want to. So I think we might in the next week.
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Kendra answered
You should let other people tell you if you should or shouldnt...if it was ment to be then it will happen on its own...not because you planned it
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If you feel comfortable go ahead you might not believe me but I got my very first boyfriend in 2nd grade and we made out in 3rd and had sex in 3rd we used a condom of course I was dumb I shouldnt have done that the kissing was fine though my dad said good 4 you so.
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Totally I'm in 6th grade and me and my boyfriend make out (with tongue) like 24/7. He comes to my house and watches movies every night, but we really don't watch the movies if you know what I mean haha and I go hang out at his house every weekend (in his room
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I am in the exact same problem, I'm in the 6th grade now 7th and my boyfriend as asked me if I wanted to kiss. I said yes but we never had the time to.(My boyfriend is 10....lol) I'm 12 and really love my boyfriend but don't no if I should kiss him or not. So what I'm saying here is that it is truly up to you if you want to kiss him..it doesn't have to be on the lips to start out if your nevous.Tell your boyfriend how you feel about the kiss and I am sure he will understand if your  not ready or if you don't want to kiss on the lips yet.
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You should not listen to these other people only some of them but I say kiss him my parents don't now I'm goin out with someoone but kiss him I'm in sixth gade we been friends since kindergarten and I stared goin out with him in sixth grade and I want to kiss him wen my friend kisses her boyfriend  so I do not want to be alone well I do but I don't lol good luck
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Definitely too young at this age dear.  It's great that you feel comfortable around him but at this age you should concentrate on doing things together and having fun.  You have plenty of time to concentrate on kissing much later. 
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I'm in the same position I love this guy brendon were going out and I want him to be special but he is in 4th grade
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If you want to kiss him go on and do it and get it over with it and then you can make fun of him
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You should kiss him because or soon he not going to be insrested  I kised my boyfriend in 2 days
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Id think yhu should because if yhu kiss him he wuld get wut he wantz n mite dump you trust me samo-happend to me but then we felt weird together so we broke up but got bak 2gethr nextweek so jus wait til your n at least 8th grade
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Oh my god KISS HIM! I'm in 6th grade and me and my boyfriend make out ALL the time (with tongue). He comes over every night Mon.-Fri. To watch movies but we don't really watch the movies if you know what I mean ahaha!! Then on the weekends I hang at his house (in his room) and our parents are totally cool with it as long as we keep it to making out, and grinding. Have fun!
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You need to wait until you are older to be doing this, at this age you need to be more focused on learning as your whole future is based on knowledge. Hope this helps, good luck to you.
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I'm sorry but I find that hard to believe that yall have been dating for two years and have not kissed. If that is true then you should wait till your a little older.
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Haha.....you guys are hillarious you are at sixth grade and....you want to have....sex....I don't understand....stupid...Yes,It's stupid
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Yes I kissed my boyfriend in 6th grade now he says he wants to have sex with me
and marry me

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