Kissing looks a romantic and exciting intimate moment if we believe all the images that we have in films and television shows. The reality is that the first kiss is generally nothing like how you see it on TV.
Everybody is nervous about their first ever kiss, especially if you are kissing someone who has already been kissed before as you don't want to appear like you don't know what you are doing.
Make sure that your girlfriend is happy about the prospect of you kissing her. There is nothing more damaging to your self esteem than going in for a kiss and being pushed away by the other person.
When you are both comfortable with the prospect of this first kiss, gently pull her towards you by gently putting your arms around her, either round her waist or over her shoulders.
Look into her eyes and slowly move your head towards her, tilting it slightly to avoid colliding your nose with hers. Close your eyes as your lips gently meet hers.
Either a gentle peck on the lips will be enough for your first kiss or you may wish to give her a French kiss.
If you wish to engage in a French kiss then you will need to open your mouth slightly and allow your tongue to enter her mouth. She will be guided by you and may put her tongue in your mouth.
Either move your tongue around her mouth, or you could touch her tongue with yours.
While you are in the kissing act, you could perhaps touch the side of her face or run your fingers through her hair (most girls enjoy having their hair touched). Take the lead from her as to what are her barriers for this act. She may not be comfortable having you stroking her.
Listen. If you really like her just get it over with! I have five simple rules for this sort of thing.
1. First brush your teeth or take a mintos.
2. Then get her alone in a private spot.
3. Lean in and if she wants to kiss shell lean in to.
4. Keep your eyes open. If her face looks confused lean away. Shell wonder why you leaned in and just say'' I wanted a hug.''.
5.always let her deicide when to stop.
Folllow those rules and youll be smoching in no time!!!!
Hey I kissed my girlfriend for the first time last week(: Just be alone. Don't do it when people are around because thats how it feels awkward. Go into a room. Or just somwhere where you two are alone ;D
Goooood luck man(:
It is true to have conidence in yourself when trying to kiss your girlfriend, but if you feel like you may be rishing things then just try to sit down with her and tell her you like her a lot and see if she might make the first move. If you really want to try to progress in your relationship then talk to her and tell her that you are shy....if she likes you the way you hope she does then she will sit down and help you through it beacuse how do you know she doesnt feel the same way that you do. This worked for me but she was extremely shy and I almost thought I couldnt do it and would brake up with her. Anyways just try to communicate and you should be able to pull it off. Good luck to you and I hope this helps you
First you should try to get her alone(very difficult sometimes)and look at her with a warm smile to make her confident and tell her a compliment like:even if my eyes where damaged I could still see your beautiful eyes .or something like that .then try closing your eyes and liplocking.as the kiss progresses you slowly open your mouths and explore each other's mouth.It's a bit weird in the start but after the first time you both start to enjoy it.
Good luck kissing.
Start off slow.
Here's a suggestion, maybe if you two are alone and you happen to be having a conversation just stare at her with a smile on your face. Then when she asks why you're just staring at her, give her a kiss on the forehead. Then keep gently kissing her face until she joins you or until you decide to gently give her a peck on the lips. She would probably view that as sweet.
That is just one suggestion, but still, just take it slow, it's her first kiss too. It will be something great for you two to experience together, have fun!
Talk, communication is the key to any good relationship. So ask her (even thou your shy find some confidence tell yourself you can do it) about the kiss. As for the I Love You part. There are many ways you could go about saying that like on the end of a text you could say this
"... Ok bye
P.S. I Love You. "
Or you could send her a not in class (if your in the same class ) that simply says I Love You. Or you could simply to tie the two ideas together meet with her and say to her I Love You then wait till she says I Love You Too and then you kiss her.
Good luck :D
Yeah just do it first kiss is not bad you will do just fine, good luck she will like it
It's easy just star to kiss her then poke your tongue in her mouth a little bit and when her tongue responds then put it into full flow then while you're kissing her put one hand on her back and one in her hair and she'll be begging for more! Bye the way please give this a go because it might be the only answer you get!
Ive got the same problem but I'm ten and I only see her at school and I really like her
Boy, just do it.. Don't think that you are a bad kisser or else you might end up thinking this your whole life! So start from now and you can also kiss in a blink or you might also give her some hints that you're going to kiss her by your attitudes.. Hope this helps =)
It's always more special when the two of you are alone. Just found out that my girl wanted me to kiss her yesterday. Thought about it all day today, but when the moment came... I guess I was just nervous. Mind you this is after school, particularly at a private school, with people, some people watching and when we have our first kiss I want it to be special. That's why it's better to wait for the opportune moment.
Thanks guys I have been helped by that because I am 13 and still haven't had my first kiss, I see people in the street and in school doing it and it just makes me feel jealous, because they make it look so easy even though it really isn't the first time. I am going to see my girlfriend in hospital today and I don't know what to look for if she wants a kiss please tell me some signs if you know any
Wait till you are alone or with a few good friends the stare her in the eyes and let her know how much you love her then if she smiles it is highly likely she is ready... Lean forward and kiss her if you get lucky you might even lose your frigidityl
Don't think about it, just do it!
Start Kissing her bottom or top lip!
One day when you are all alone with her or have enough room just like walk around her lik in a cricle then get closer nd closer 9(don't start to far)she will think your playing with her and when you r lik 6 inches away frm her grab her nd say I love you nd then kiss her
Take her by suprise
don't try ramming your tung down her throat she mite nt like tht
Just kiss her man I actually made out with mine today and I'm 12 you may be nervous and don't tell her make it a suprise but don't be near anyone I had my first with no one around
Just compliment, smile, and start kissing then just kick it up a notch to French kissing. I'm 11 too and I already Frenched kissed my girlfriend, been going out with her for a few days, and the first time we kissed we were alone on a boat, so just try to be alone with her. Like the woods or something, trust me, it works.
Really right now I'm in the same situation you are but all I got to say is just kiss her and if she pulls away you know she is not ready so just do it and don't feel bad if she pulls away just start talking about some random topic and I will all be ok trust me.
I'm having the exact sane problem......I'm trying to kiss her when we are alone but it's not working we are never alone. I think you should just kiss her when your alone or if you are with a few really good friends
Thats easy! Pull her close den start kissing... Den go for thongs! When in full motion sneak your hand down her skirt and start to rub her ass she'll beg for more! Good luck
Just ask her if you can give her kiss and see what she says
Hey GUEST dude thats above my answer, you have a serious problem man.
You can't treat your girlfriend that way.
Your totaly gay man!!!.
Tell her good word's like baby I can describe you with all my word's cause all my word's can't describe how much beatiful and sweet are you and she will be like aww baby and kiss you lol xD
If you need to build up confidence, ask her on like facebook or myspace or even in a txt.
When I asked my GF if she wanted to kiss, I asked her on facebook and it was a lot easier than asking her up in person. If it feels awkward than tell her your shy. Most people are on their first kiss, god knows I was. Lol
What you should do bro is just wait intel you feel like it is the right time... What I found out was that they seem to look at you a lot and smile when she smiles start leaning in and kiss her. With my girl she seems to hold both my hands and then she does but if she isn't ready then you arent ready...
Ok bro bro I was in tha same situation you were in I'm kind of shy 2 but I worked throught it the first time I said I loved her was on her b-day our you can say it when your about 2 get off of fb our off the phone with her and I kissed my girl almost everyday when we leave and get 2 school hope this help
Well first bro go and have a really good time and then do it
I'm scared too . I'm 13 and engaged to my girlfriend we kiss a lot now :) and other stuff but shh
Ok I'm 11 too no worryz k dude all you need to do is
1.come up from behond her and cover her eyes say guess who.
2.she wil turn around and thats wen you plant 1
hope it /works best of luck:)
I was going to help you out, until I found out you were 13 years old. Your mind is too immature to experience the true meaning of love. You might feel that way, but it is only infatuation. I would wait a few years until you start loving someone. And about the kiss... It's only a kiss! If you are that jealous about it then DO IT!! Its not hard. Once your in you stay in. And why would she go out with you if she didn't feel the same way?
I think you should just explain in a text, face-to-face, anything. Just explain how much you luv her
Dudes it's not hard make her laugh then go for it don't take no for an answer trust me I did the same thing and now shee love to kiss me
Wth you 2 r eleven and you want to start french kissin thats kinda fast you kids r too young for that
Someone up there was righty girls want it more than their guys she asked me kiss her,,,but when ever I see her my problem isn't only I'm shy to kiss but I get confuse but wheni meet her next time I will do.I believe...
Dude just go for it! I'm 11 years old, been going out with her for a few hours, the second I said yes to asking her out she kissed me right away ! Dude I'm 11 and I have more guts then you. Just kiss her every girl likes to be surprised, especially with a kiss. Then she will truly know you love her!