So my parents wants to know if I'm still a virgin, and the doctor said I'm not a virgin -but I know I have never had sex with anyone. What should I do?


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Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered

Why did your doc say that? Did he check or something? 

Tell your parents you are a virgin, and if the doctor says you're not, ask him in front of your parents ''What? Did you rape me in an appointment or in my sleep? Because I'm pretty sure I've never had sex, if i did why would I lie? And this isnt your business!''

AshleeVague DanaHafer Profile

As far as i know the dr does not have permission to tell any of your personal information (even being a minor) just be honest with your parents.

Sharron Prestcott Profile

Did the doctor examine you?  If you've used a tampon then physically you're not a virgin but for all intents and purposes you are a virgin.  You need to talk to your doctor and ask him why he disclosed his patient's information to another party whether that's a parent doesn't make any difference his obligation is to you and to keep your records confidential.

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

Well .. A doctor's examination can determine if the hymen is still in tact .. But it can not determine if a patient is a virgin...PERIOD. 

The hymen can be compromised by the use of anything inserted into the vagina .... Like a tampon (for example).

Tori Koehler Profile
Tori Koehler answered

If you have not had sex then you are still a virgin. Tell your parents you are still a virgin. If they ask you if you're sure, then tell them yes, I'm sure. 

I have never had sex, so I'm for sure I'm still a virgin. And I don't know how the doctor would know that, or why the doctor would have said that!

larissa kowlessar Profile

Well you know that you don't have to have sex in order to be a virgin. There is other things you can do not to be a virgin... 

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