You shouldn`t want someone to date you out of pity, you should want someone to date you because they love you for who you are. You may believe that you`re ugly and have a terrible personality but to someone out there your looks and personality might be just what they`re looking for. And if you truely believe you have a bad personality then I agree with the other answer, change what you think makes your personality so terrible, try being happier, more optimistic, care free and you`d be surprised how guys are attracted to that kind of attitude. As for your looks, if you believe your so ugly then try throwing on some new, sexier clothes or throw on a bit of make up or do your hair up real nice and your bound to catch someones eye. Good luck! :)
Hey Tiffany , its like you're so desperate for a guy , when you really don't need one! I'm sure you are beautiful and if you think you have weight issues then you could always lose weight , there is so much help for you out there Tiffany..8) you sound like a lovely person so I guess guys just don't appreciate you and nieither do they see your beauty but don't worry theres a guy for you out there , somewhere , he just hasnt found you yet....8) and you r still young and have plenty of time to find someone , maybe if you were a little more positive and you may find someone? Negativitity never gets you anywhere! So smile and believe you are beautiful and I'm sure your prince will come! And remember if you can't learn to love yourself how is anybody else supposed to love you? So if its appearance your so worried about then change the way you look , but don't change you! Don't change your persona cus thts fine the way it is..8) good luck! And plus you can go get some therapy and counselling that will help you feel better about yourself and may give you some good advice.