How Do You Tell A Teenage Boy You Love Him With Out Actually Saying?

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Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Treat him nice, like make him smile.
Be honest with him and yourself.
Before you jump into telling him you love him, really think about it first.
You don't want to regret it later on in life.
But remember. If you love someone it is not a maybe, I don't know, could be kind of thing. If you love him you will just know and you wont have to question it.
P.s don't listen to that person saying you should have sex with him. Sex is supossed to be something special. Your not supossed to just give it out like candy
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As a guy I can answer this. The way to get a guy to like you is talk to
him evey day and to show love nudge him with your hip and hold his
hand. The next thing you should do is hug him even if your not going out
with him say hi whats up and open your arms for the hug and they sink
in evey time. Try this and good luck :)
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Eliza Luman answered
Well, I am 14, and I love this boy sooo much he has made me so happy, at first I knew I liked him right away. I first tried talking to him and being friendly , but then a week later I went to this football game with some friends and he was there. I hung out with him and his friends and at the end of the game we were all sitting with each other, but when we were leaving I was walking next to him and I was pretending I had a secret, and he knew I had a secret, and he was really curious, so I kinda blurted out " I like you" and it was funny, because he said "I knew it!" So then it was weird for the next week, because  everyone knew I liked him, so all of his friends and my friends were interfering. He wanted to get to know me better and so we did, we spent every night talking to each other for hours. So a week later he told me he decided, and that made me really nervous, but on a monday he asked me out, but again it was awkward, because his friends were like forcing him to say it, and I wanted him to tell me exactly what he wanted to say without peer pressure, so I told him that and the next day he did. Today was our first date and first kiss and it was wonderful, he told me he loved me and I know this is real,  life is perfect for me now.

So my advice is:
It never hurts to ask, so don't be shy to tell.
I was kinda pushy, because I was so curious (and still am)
Don't choose anyone that is stupid and makes bad choices.
#1 priority: School.
And if he ever EVER! Touches in a way that's without your permission or hurts you, dump his ass.
[cute thing is my bf has an honor code, and its to never punch or hurt a girl physically ( and if he can help it, emotionally)].
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Salsa Piccante answered
Tell him out of your heart how much you love him and wouldn't want  any other man to replace him.
Make him feel your presence even when he is not there with you.
Don't be overly jealous about him  and give him his own space when he needs it.
Always give him the best romantic attention .
Try as much as you can to understand him better.
Even in a heated argument  before leaving give him a warm kiss.
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In my opinion, to tell boy you love him without saying it (not in a relationship, just to get the relationship started), here are a few teqniques that are working for me. First of all, whenever he gets a glimpse of you, or if you look at him, always smile, but not too much you'll scare him. Seocndly, be honest, and yourself, and talk to the boy and laugh.
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Anonymous answered
1. Don't be too clingy
2. Give him the space he needs with his friends
3. If you feel you need him too much, try and find some sort of fulfillment (God etc.) and he will respect that it's to all about him for you. When that respect deepens eventually Love could come into the picture.
4. You want to make sure that he might feel the same way first? Well, maybe you should let him be the one to say it- that is, if you're a romantic.
5. If you just HAVE to say it do this:
When you're alone together and he's looking another way, gentle touch his hand. He will look back at you and you smile sweetly.. In a gently, almost whisper, say those 3 (heart felt) words and finish in a smile and a kiss on he cheek and then look away so he doesn't feel pressured.
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Anonymous answered
To show a guy you love him look him in the eye until he looks at you, then smile and look away. Walk hand in hand and don't be all over him, unless youre alone. Act like every kiss is your last. Make the first move once in a while but don't be too clingy. Don't talk about marriage but do things that a married couple would do.. Kiss in the rain. Take a walk in the snow. Make dinner for eachother at ones house. Go ice skating. Spend a day at the beach and try to plan enough time so you can watch the sunset. Get mad over stupid things once in a while to give him the feeling that he needs you. Don't go an hour without telling him you love him.
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Jasmin answered
Firstly, you need to decide whether you really love him, or if you just fancy him. I know its hard to tell at your age because when your young everything seems like its the end of the world. But trust me think about it, do you really love him and care for him or is this a crush. Because if you do love him then I'm sure you will be brave enough to tell him directly that you love him - but if your scared by the idea of even telling him you like him then I would think again because you may not be ready for a relationship. I don't know how close you are to this boy, but I think you should ask him how he feels about you before you start to worry about telling him how you feel. If he likes you a lot, I'm sure he will pick up the courage to tell you. If not you can still be friends :)
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Anonymous answered
Be happy when he's happy, listen to him when he wants to talk and give advise if he asks for it, find time to be there for him when he needs you, understand his shortcomings because nobody's perfect, never take him for granted, show him that his opinions matter to you...etc..etc
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It's not too hard honestly... I was in love with a boy Dakota for three years. He knew I liked him, everybody know which was the problem and he avoided me because of it. Eighth grade he started to text me and get to finally know me for who I really was. I was so happy because now I knew I could actually tell him how I really felt about him because he only knew half of it... Liking him which is not how I felt. In gym class one day we went into the boys bathroom that nobody ever went into and all I told him was that I was sorry for letting all those people know that I liked him and never thinking about him first and letting all those people harrase him all those years. He smiled at me and his big blue eyes lit up like that's all he ever wanted to hear. He hugged me!!! And the one thing I'll never forget he said was I've always liked you but it took you that long to actually figure out that's what always bothered me. We have been going out for six months now and still going strong. It's easier just to let your feelings out then to keep them bottled inside. It depends on the type of guy he is if he has any feelings for you at all he'll listen. Trust me.
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Spend time with him, give him his space, look him directly in the eyes and let hm know you loved him, cook a special meal for him, listen to him when he speaks and acknowledge his thoughts, share secrets with  him, speak to him with confidence, give good advised and meet him half way in all needs
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One thing I know my boyfriend loves is just telling him what he means to me. He loves the feeling he gets when I look him IN THE EYE and say " I love you". Another thing is, don't go out of your way, often a guy will feel pressured to do the same for you. The simple things is what a guy really loves. If this does not work for you, I'm sorry, but this, I know, is what my boyfriend loves, and we've been together for almost 10 months(:
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Run your fingers through his hair (pet him), cook for him all the time, especially cookies, pack his lunches for work, give him massages, set him up with snacks and beer for a day of football, give him his space, don't cling- learn to live your own life independently (school, career, friends, hobbies) and he will admire that and be grateful for your everyday good nature.  You don't have to give gifts all the time. . . Trust me.
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I'm young, and I love a boy. He knows. We were perfect. Until we started arguing over stupid stuff that didn't even matter, because we weren't going out. I've told him I love him in so many ways, and only one has ever done me any good. Write him a letter, slip in in his bag at school. And wait for him to say anything to you the next time he sees you. If he doesn't say anything don't worry! He just might not of found it yet. Don't write down what you think you should write. Don't be scared to write how you feel. It doesn't matter how lame it is. If it comes from you and your heart it should still mean just as much. Also about the confuses you bit. The boy I love confuses me all the time. I am started to get sick of it to. I don't know what to do anymore. Somedays he loves me, and says he's waiting for me to ask him out. Then he says he doesn't love you he was just lying to make you happy. Then he said he loves you and he has seen you for who you really are, (apparently the greatest person in the world) and then he doesn't want you to love him anymore. Seriously if your boyfriend/ friend who is a boy gets like that doll' say no and leave him. He will just screw you over like the boy I love did to me. But try with the letter thing. It really does work.

  Good Luck Doll'    ♥
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Well i tried this letter thing and it didnt work and he send me a note saying i hate you no just this but he went and told his friends about it and everybody knew that i was in love with him
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I would suggest making hand hearts at him (dumb-yes, but still effective!). Also, you are never too young to love! Love, I believe, is an immense sense of joy. Uncontainable, sweet, and greatly desired by all in this world. Some may say young people (13,14,15 and under or even older) are incapable of truly loving a person, but I beg to differ. They may say one of this age may only really like a person, but I beg to differ. Love can be achieved by all regardless of your age, and thus, don't give up on it!
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Eliza Luman commented
I completly agree with you, love is the strongest feeling ever. Its what makes life worth living. Its also not about all about just being in love with another human being, you can also love a hobby or somthing you do that makes you happy no matter what. Like I love animals and I work at a animal center.
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Brian Reed answered
Actions speak louder than words. You should be honest with the boy and yourself . Love is a confusing thing when you are at your age. Be careful...do not jump into anything  you may regret later
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Anonymous commented
I really love him but he doesnt love me
he goes out with a girl hate
i want him back i really love him
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Don't be too pushy, boys hate pushyy..give them time to think about it and then take it from there.
If ypu flirt with him then he may think that thats all you want to do but b imaginative about it if you really wwanna make it special
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Tay answered
When you first meet a guy and instantly know he's different from any other guy you've ever met because your eyes widen as if you're seeing for the very first time and you feel things you've never felt before... Well that's how you tell him.  When he sees the look on your face and feels the same way you do, well all you ever have to do from then on to tell him you love him is to just look at him the same way you did the moment you met him.
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Anonymous answered
Tell him you love something he likes, and he might realise you're hinting something... I myself wouldn't say it straight out because teenage boys are kind of unstable and may hurt your feelings or reject you out of shock, not out of feelings.
Good luck
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JJJJJJ BBBBBB answered
Heterosexual guys are simple-minded creatures that will miss almost all of the little things women do to show love. The rule is: keep it simple sweetie. Try these things:

1. Talk to him and look at him like he is the smartest, strongest, best lover in the world. He won't be as likely to seek fulfilment elsewhere if he is getting it from you. Be the very source of his strength.
2. Compare him favourably to friend's husbands/boyfriends.
3. Accept that he doesn't act like a woman. He will, on occasion, leave the toilet seat up, won't see the importance of flowers, etc.

Some women think that doing these things will cause a guy to lose interest in you. If he does, great! Why would you want a guy like that anyway?

Abusive/controlling people never end up happy with their relationships. Do the opposite and you will have a much better chance of having a strong and lasting love.
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It doesn't matter if your away from him, what important is he can feel your love all the step of the way.
In my own experience, I just got through from a break-up, I can't deny that I really love him. But t have to set him free   to stop his pains, sacrifices, and sufferings now and in the future. After months he had fallen in love with a new girl, and regrets are all I got. I love him so much...
What I used   to do, is look at his eyes with love, care, and hope that we can be together again....
I didn't change my acts and attitudes. I used to call him my pet name for him "****"
his new girl is currently in other place,   she's a good friend of mine.
I don't intend to get him while she's away, I just want to prove him that every second of my life, I just want to be with him.
I just want to prove to him how much I love him and how long can I wait for him.
And most of all I just want to prove to him that no one can replace him in my heart, whatever happen, whoever comes, wherever I am, whenever it is... He will always be in my heart, from the very start till the end of my life. =(((
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I know how hard it is! I'm nearly fourteen, and the kid I like is fifteen. I really like him, but I don't want to tell him, because my mates will rip into me. He's the hottest kid I know, and he's always like ''Any boy would be lucky to have you'' I get mixed signals, one minute hes perfect, next he goes offline without saying bye. But I kinda have a Cyber relationship with him, I've met him once, It's no where near love what I feel for him, but I do like him. The best thing is, to wait untill the moment's right, that's what I'm doing:)
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Anonymous answered
There are so many ways.....
You can tell him how you feel, as well as show him.
Make his favorite dinner, rent his favorite movie, buy him a cd of his favorite group.
Being a fantastic girlfriend is a great way to show a guy how much you love him.
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I would say talking. Being there for him if he has problems. People need someone to talk to I think thats very important. Also be a good listener to him. Where you know he lacks you be there to help pick him up.
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Rachel Sharp answered
There are tons of ways to show a guy that you love him. A gift or small gesture that shows that you know his personality will certainly make him feel special. For instance, you could give him a book on a subject that you know he enjoys. Another idea is to make arrangements to eat at his favourite restaurant. Often guys really appreciate not having to make the decisions, so arranging an evening for the two of you is can go over really well! If you have planned where you will go, it takes the pressure off of him to think of things to do. You need not spend a lot of money. You could simply give your partner a card with some nice sentiments hand-written by you. Showing him that you are thinking of him and how much he means to you is really pretty simple. Being appreciated is a basic human need and no doubt your endeavours will be valued by your partner.
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I think first you should invite him to have a meal,then you can go to see a film with him and also can give him the present in his birthday.Then,after a period of time ,at a appropriate time,you can tell him you love him,I hope you can fall in love and have a bright future.
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Nathy Bermudez answered
Well I like a 13 year old boy and I'm 14. My bf tells me to wait for someone els, but I love him. I tried to forget about him but is really hard. I don't talk to him much since his best friend likes me.... I think thats why. I'm about to tell him that I love him but its really hard since I get nervous every time he talks to me. But since I love him that much I am going to tell him. If he doesnt feel the same way as me than ill ask him to be friends.
   Theres nothing more beautiful than a good friendship.
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Anonymous answered
You have to tell him that you love him! Or at least really like him because I highly doubt that you actually love him. But you have to tell him how you really feel about him. You can't just beat around the bush because in the end it will just be frustrating for the both of you.
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Jade Blair answered
Let him know that your interested but don't tell him you love him, talk to him to start, just trivial things, then find out more about him and what he films he wants to see and then say that you want to see that to, maybe you could go together, the way he reacts will say it all
if he jumps at the chance - he likes you, just take things slowly and start doing more together
if he says maybe or then there is a chance he likes someone else either that or he's just stupid.
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Caroline Hudson answered
Well all you have 2 do is hang out with his friends then you can ask his friends if they can ask him a question such as do you recon that she prime ay! 4 question.
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If a boy is taking to somebody and at the same time hes looking at me or hes  just staring at you is that a clue he likes me
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whitney answered
I really like th boy he is 2 yeasolder than me andhe always staring at me and flirting bt wen itell him I think I like him he acts like h don't no mee

yyyyy is thiss ??
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sepehr sepehri answered
Hi, I have this problem and do this work and I get good answer.
You can give him a gift and speak about love, if he do nothing then try to speake about leaving him not directly
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Show him you love him by being sensitive to his feelings and responding to his attempts to get to know you
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I have this crush - And I think I am in love with him. He knows it but he looks ta me EVERY TIME he see's me. Do you think he likes me back?? Xx
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Annie McManus answered
Showing is way diffrent then telling, Tell ing is so much easyer nd they get it easyer cause you no guys theycant get the feeling when they know they love you. So know but don't say.
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I'm young and I think I love him but then I just think its a very very strong ' like ' he's my best friends brother. Its really awkward sometimes because his family crack jokes about how I love him and always look at him , and when that happens with him in the room he can't look at me he just looks away and smiles same as me what do you think he thinks about me ? He always talks to me and I always talk to him , were quite close I think he's in the year above me I just don't no what to say ?! My family and his family are really good friends because I'm best friends with his sister ! Were even going on holiday together... WHAT SHOULD I DO I think I'm in love ? But afraid everything I say is going to goo awfully wrong please someone write back.
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Hey, I think you can fall in true love at the age of 13.
I'm 13 and my boyfriend is also 13...we talk to one another everyday
I never knew he liked me and he never knew I liked him, then one day he said I know this is random but do you love me more than a friend.
Now usually I wouldnt answer because I'm a shy person but something kind of forced me to say yes. Then he also told me that he likes me more than a friend.
Then we kissed... And now we are going out.
If hes an out-going person then go for it! Ask him how he feels about you, if he isn't then I sugest dropping hints like hanging around with him, flirting, laughing at his jokes. But remember 1 crucial thing BE YOURSELF!!
If he wants you to change tell him you have to love me for who I am not who you want me to be....bye x
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TOm White answered
Don't worry, a 13 year old boy confuses himself. Having been there and done that I can guarantee you that he has no chance of sanity for at least ten years. If you are willing to put up with that, you have to be more than obvious. Getting the idea through to him might take a few years. Good luck.
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You can constantly remind him that you love him and tell him if he ever needs someone to talk to that you are always there for you. Text him through the night and tell him how much you wish you were there with him. I'm sure he will love it.
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To be honest, I'm in the same position as you and I told the boy that I liked him, I found out he liked me back. Of your anything like me then you thought he does definetley not like you in tht way you could be wrong. Its better than thinking what if 24/7?
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Become friends with him I became friends with a guy at my school and then out of the blue he told me that he liked me and then I started to like him too and now we have kinda planned that were going to go out when were in mid highschool ps I'm 14 he's 13
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I'm 13 and the boy I have loved since year 4 has just asked me out. He told me that just me being there has helped him realise that he likes me. So I recommend   just be there and laugh and joke but LET THE BOY MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.
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Hi! I have loved a boy in my class for ... 4 years now ( I think!) . Well, this year I told him how I feel. He was seeing someone else at the time, but it was ok. About  2 months later, I told him I was over him ( for a bit of closer!). He emailed me back saying he loved me after all! I was happy, but it had to be a secret. Then like a month later, my best friend tells him she loves him!!  He told her he loves her aswell! So I told  him I knew, and he apoligized. Now they have both dumped him, and he is mine!
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Even if you guys aren't going out, give him a hug or a hug before he goes, make eye-contact. Give him the space he needs & make your chats interesting and show you know his feelings, & flirt a little but not O.T.T

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It really depends on his personality... If he's out going just say it... Ps you are too young to love someone! It's probably not even love just a strong like.
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I no your nevr 2 young, but I had a bad experience w/ a guy tht I thought I luvd. He only wanted me 4 my body nothing more.
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NO she is not you are never to young to fall in love!
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U r never to young to be in love!!! Never tell anyone that!!!!!!
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I have a boyfriend and I want to tell him that I really love him
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Then go ahead and say it, but give him hints first, like me and my bf started with Corney quotes. Lol
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Don't tell him, first find out if he feels the same way about you. I'm thirteen and the boy I've loved for 3 years just found out and it didnt get me anywhere. We are just good friends and this proves that the boy should make the first move.
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You should just take a chance and tell this person who you really fell.... And if it doesnt work out just wait for something to happen♥
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Tell him you like him but you look too young to tell him without looking desperate
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I reaii no how yuh feel i think yuh should try some of these^^^^ out but at the end of the day you have your whole life ahead of yuh xx
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I would just tell him how you feel and if he don't feel the same then he is just missing out !
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I don't know I like a 13 year old to but he might love someone else I wish I could help you hun but I am 13 too and id just WAIT
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You should tell him how you feel maybe he feels the same way or maybe not or sometimes it is that you don't love him maybe you like him very much
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It depends on what type of guy he is. If hes a more caring sweet boyfriend den go for it and just say it. I'm pretty sure he woudn't mind. If hes like more not into romantic stuff den show him by kissing him, hugging him ect.
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Actually 1st thing 2 do iz 2 c whether he likez some1 or not if ''NO'' den try 2 knoe more about him by bein'  frendz if you think you weren't wrong bout your choice try 2 show it 2 him slowly nd if he likez you bak den he will try 2 show it 2!! So at that tym let him make sure that you like him bt in a way that you dun say it directly jus try 2 show it nd if he really got what you did nd he likez you too den he wud tell you that he likez you  nd den you will tell that too nd you guyz will b together ''bt b carefull itz nt az easy az it lukz like bt try your hardest if you rly luv him'' =)
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- Say Ii Think I'm N Luvhh With Someone & If He Says Who Sayy Someone Very Special & Hes Gonnah Ask Who Say His Initials
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Okay ermm I really need help aswell actually, I'm aged 15, I'm gay, and I've had a hard time comming to terms with it. At the moment I'm going through a lot of distress, due to me being in love with a teenage boy at the same age as me, I'd love to openly tell him. I know for a full on fact I love him, I've tried with other people to take my mind of him, but they always reflect to him, I just can't wait for the next day just to see him, we eventually got talking and became friends, then one day I felt I had to tell him, it went drastically wrong, I told him because of the desperation, and it was online, he has no idea it was me, I think we have fallen out on his own accord and I have no idea what to do. I just can't let this one go. He has had sex with around 3 teenage girls and acts straighter then a lamppost, I have no idea how to tell him, or judge his reaction, face to face. I'd really appreciate it if someone could help me and tell me how to explain everything to him.
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sheema nilofar answered
Girls have this talent so all you have to do is smile at him say that he looks good in some particular colour. Show him that how much you care for him. Listen to his problems and give him your advice and always do what he likes and always tell him that your special for ...if you can't do all this then go to him and propose to him. By doing this you can find out what he thinks about you and if the answer is yes then it's very good and if the answer is no then you can continue being friends and maybe in future he will come to you and will propose to you.
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Get your friend too come with you and get them too tell the boy you like him but don't say you don't because he will not believe her and if he doesnt believe you get your friend to say don't you ??? And say yes so your not on your own when you say you do and just be confident an if he doesnt feel the same way its not the end of the world but make - sure you agree with your friend when she says you like him. :) good luck !!!
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Well first you have to know how he is like and if he likes you I have a problem too I love this boy but my friend loves him so I say that I have a crash on this other boy which is true and she doesn't know I have a crash on this other boy I hanged with him in the labiry after school his friend asked me out for him and I said maby
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Hello she just said what are SIGNS that a boy would show you 2 tell you that he luvs you ! DUH

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