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My Mum And Dad Argue All The Time, I Don't Know What To Do?

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Julia Holtzen answered
I know exactly what you are feeling.  When I was about 8 years old my parents started doing the same thing. They fought all the time, and were always saying mean things to each other.  When they did finally decide to get a divorce, my dad told me I had to leave with my mom.  I was heartbroken, confused, and angry that it was happening.  Not to mention I had the same feeling of not wanting to leave my dad all alone.  I would have to say that it would probably be best if you went with your mom and your sisters.  Even though they are too young to understand right now (your sisters), I think they will appreciate it if you are around.
If there is one thing I have learned over the years.  (that all happened when I was 8, I am 20 now)  I have learned that there was nothing I could do to change what happened between my parents.  Everything happens for a reason.  And to my amazement 12 years later they are both re-married and the happiest people in the world.
Now I am sure that you don't want to think about them splitting up and maybe finding someone new.  My only point by telling you all of that is that you can't control what is going on.  What you need to do is think about the fact that it is necessary for them to part (possible temporarily) and focus on the things that make you happy in your life.  Don't stress over what is going on.  Things will work out for the best.
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Think that it is their personal problem and try to save you from getting affected by it.
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You should stay with your sisters and be there for them. It is important for as much of the family to stay intact. Don't try to fix it, you need to stay 15 and enjoy your life as best as you can. And let your sisters know that this is not yours or their fault. Stay tough.
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My mum and dad fight a lot as well. When I tried to stop them, my mum just got angry. Try putting the reasons why you should stay with your dad on piece of paper and do the same with your mum. Try to find out how your sisters are felling too. Good luck!!!
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Ashish Niraj answered
I don't think your effort might be noticed by those fight elders. So don't worry too much....these are the scene happening with most of the families however they seem to look cordial from outside. Remain Calm are play with your little sisters. Study your subjects also other interesting things & also play outdoor games. And If your parent ask you to take side of one of them then don't take it always remain in your family together.
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Moms and dads usually fights all the time...it also happens to me.At such times I think that they are more immatured than me.According to me .....when such things happen ....you should just get out of the house and wait till they starts searching for you.after this...they may scold you,but don't get afraid.Tell them that you ran away because they were fighting and next time if they do it again,you will never come back.When it comes to divorce...I think you should just leave both of your parents and demand to stay alone or with your brothers and sisters if you have.This may bring them end them up with a solution of living again as a family :-}
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Same here my mum and dad fight all the time and I don't know what to do I don't want to leave my dad or mum help me please!
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SMITA GADGIL answered
I think this is a very common problem amongst most families. Mothers and fathers argue all the time. The thing is that for many of them it is a part of life, they do not realise how awful it sounds to the onlooker.

I know it becomes unbearable for a persons staying in the same house. They keep bickering and fighting all the time. More often than not when you are married for so many years this happens, I would suggest do explain to them separately how awful it is and how affected you are by all this, maybe they would pay heed and stop this incessant arguments and fights.

Try and speak to them and take care of yourself, I am sure it is a passing phase and if you speak to them, tell them how much it is troubling you, I am sure it will be fine.
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Just say STOP!! And say please stop fighting and don't go away mom and dad because I love you. Thats all I got
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I think you should go with your mum thats what happened to me now theve got back together now there fighting again
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My mum and dad fight all the time it isn't right I think they should just live happily ever after don't you???
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Bethany England answered
My mom and dad did that and they ended up separating and their working on a divorce now that doesn't mean their going to divorce some people just do that but I would try to stay out of the arguements  just give'm some sometime they'll talk it out oneday trust me that happened to my fiends parents too they talked it out and didn't divorce so like I said give them sometime to talk when they are talking and not yelling don't bother them  they might not divorce if you let them talk
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I love you just go to you sisters and brothers and if they don't stop just run away with your sisters and brothers please
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Just go with your mum for a week and go to your dad for a week your sisters should do that as well
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My mom and dad have  huge fights.what I would do is make a video about how stupid their being.use your cousins brothers sisters or friends to be your mom and dad.then make a video of how they should of been.

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