Do Most Men Want Their Wife To Be A Virgin?

I don't think they do. Granted, today's culture says its ok to have sex before marriage, as well as a variety of other things. Is it a good thing to have sex before marriage, I would definitely say no. This is where things run into a problem. Most men don't want a virgin, while morals tend to say that you should remain one until marriage. Quite a dilemma. I would say, regardless of what men want, just do what you believe is the right thing, and thats the best you can do. Personal thoughts here, I would. I know several other people would as well. (why would I want my wife to have been sleeping around with other men before me? Disturbing thought really) Anyways, hope that helps.

I hate to be "that guy" (well, actually I rather enjoy it), but if
there are any guys out there who have taken a girl's virginity can
attest, it is rarely an enjoyable experience. The two times that I have
(didn't learn my lesson the first time), I was locked into a terrifying
cat-and-mouse game of thriller movie-esque stalkerdom that was pretty
terrifying, on both accounts. I understand a certain clingy-ness to a
degree, and maybe it was this, or maybe it was them, or maybe I'm a
jerk but it was serious wake me in the night, had to change my number,
showing up at my house at three in the morning type of stuff. I can
only imagine the horror of being married to that.

For me personally, I'm such a libidinous and passionate person (read: Whore) I would never want to spend the rest of my life with someone who couldn't satisfy me sexually.