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Why Do Men Like Virgins?

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santrese cooper Profile
santrese cooper answered
Hi I' am 22 years old and I am still a virgin. I remained a virgin for this long not because I am scared or waiting for marriage, but because I am not simply ready for sex yet. Listening to some of these comments is making me want to hurl. A woman's virginity is not a prize to be won and if you think it is then you don't deserve the special gift she shared with you. I have had lots of opportunities to have sex and lots of offer's but I remember that having sex for the first time is special. So ladies who are still virgins choose your partner wisely, choose someone who will love you and not treat your virginity as a trophy
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Well ladies you are asking for men to be pure.
I'm 26 never touched a girl. Still waiting for that special someone.
I'm a guy and if I can control my urges not to be with a female until I meet the girl I love then I think also girls should be able to control themselves, and not spread their legs for every doosh bag they meet. The main reason why someone like me would want a girl to be a virgin is not to hurt her or because shes tight. Its because of her purity and self control. Also virginity is important because shes going to be the mother of my children.
If I find my virgin girl I will love and worship her for eternity, because I want someone with self control and pure. Beside why should I keep myself pure all these years and end up with someone else's used goods.
And for all the none virgin females out there, I agree with you. If I am not virgin then I don't have the right to brag on you in being a virgin yourself.
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Anonymous answered
I'm 19, and still a virgin. It's not for lack of wanting or the opportunity to do the deed. I'm fully in mindset that the only man who should be with me that way is my husband. I like the idea of a having only that one serious relationship. Sex these days is taken so lightly and sleeping with someone just to satisfy some need, or because it may be expected, isn't appealing.
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It shouldn't matter about whether or not a person is a virgin or not, its about two people coming together who have total love and respect for each other. Sex shouldn't be selfish where only one person is only getting pleasure out of it. If the couple really care for each other, both partners will want to pleasure each other equally. It shouldn't matter if one partner has had sex 20 times in the past, they may have had a troubled past that has put them into that situation. A caring partner would not judge them and leave all that in the past. They would want to make that person's life better that the partner wouldn't want to have sex with anyone else. Just as long as safe sex is being practiced, things should be ok.
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Why only females have characters but not man ????. Well I m an 21 year old indian girl n still virgin . Females virginity can be checked by men easily n what about men ??? . Actually its all about a right thing at right time any thing at wrong time is consider as sin specially for indians but I still proud to b an indian . That yes v have nice culture to have patience or control on ourselves .this for all stupid boys who consider girls as MALL , ITEM, or whatever...
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Because men feel that they can manipulate a virgin more. Some of the comments here are full of typical male double standards. You say you prefer a virgin to someone who has been with 20 guys, but how clean are you? Seems like men can place themselves anywhere and that's ok but women can't even breathe out of place without being called dirty. At the end of the day men behave like babies (proven fact) and they have to feel like they've got their own way-to hell with the consequences or who they hurt on the way. Men with violent and aggressive attitudes towards sex and women should be kept away from-but unfortunately its these types that manipulate innocent girls. Too many mags like FHM and Nuts do not help. If you are point scoring, then what goes around comes around and you will end up very sad and lonely men.
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Anonymous answered
The guys love to  sleep with virgins because they can be assure that this girl will be honest just to me and will never have sex with other, as she kept herself till now. For meeee
try do not to sleep with many many guys, but just your own.
Enjoy your life.
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Grant Robinson answered
Men like sleeping with virgins because either there trying to be sneaky and act like they're a virgin too because men do that. Or because it's more pleasurable or because they don't want to have sex with someone who has been with allot of other people.
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S-J M-H answered
Actually, there are many women who would like a virgin man too. Everyone wants to feel that they are important and unique. It's a throwback from our sexist history that we fixate on female virginity without even considering what a woman might hope for or expect from a man.
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Anonymous answered
First: Educate yourselves and write properly.  Second, there are a lot of sexist prigs on this page.  Men and women have every right to practice safe, STD free sex with as many or as few people as their philosophy allows.  Just accept that sexuality is a part of both gender's genetic and physiological makeup and move on.  

And for those of you who enjoy virgins because of the pain you can cause them, I hope your balls shrivel off.

And for those of you who objectify women, I can only hope you fail to procreate.
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Anonymous answered
I think it is still better that we reserve our virginity. Not because we are scared nor ugly, it's just that there is beauty and mystery to the women who still manage to control themselves and not just throw themselves to any man or jerk they meet. ;)
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I think virgins should marry virgins and non virgins should marry non virgins. Because a lot of guys who have had sex like girls with experience and guy who r still virgins like a clean girl for the first time
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Anonymous commented
I so disagree with this comment. I am a virgin and look hot. Iam just waiting for the right guy to trust. I would prefer a guy with knows what he is doing so that he can take charge. Nothing hotter than a guy telling you what to do in bed.
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It differs for everybody. Some prefer because they like fresh territory and tightness. I prefer experience
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This is soooo wrong , ok fine if guys like virgins cause their tighter or whatever ( even though its a selfish reason ) but to say that its cause their pure is stupid , does that mean that after 1 night a woman goes from pure and innocent to what dirty??? I wish people had the same views on mens virginity !!!! This pisses me off ...
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bala bala answered
It is one thing to want to be a virgin yourself or not - it is a personal choice influenced by culture, religion, beliefs, fears, hopes, chance, etc. People should fully respect other people's personal choices. But it is a whole different story JUDGING people for the choice they have made and expecting them to be someone who meets their own criteria just so you can flatter your ego and feel like you have conquered some new territory by being the first all mighty to pee all over it woohoo. Be a virgin if you like or have sex with whomever you feel comfortable with. It is YOUR life.
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If having sex makes a woman dirty or inpure, then women why are we having sex with these guys? If allowing them to enter us makes us dirty, then they are the dirty ones for contaminating us! Having sex for the first time is very painful and any guy that takes pleasure in that is disgusting.
So guys since you all like virgins, you have a lot of 1night stands? Cause the girl you just sexed is no longer a virgin.
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I am 22, still virgin, this is something I keep for the only person I will love in my life. And I hope this person will treasure it.
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The very same reason, why a girl would like to be the first woman  in his life.  And remain the first and last for  each other.
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Paul answered
Part of it has to do with being the first person to explore new territory. Part of it has to do with the physical tightness of a virgin. Personally, I like women who are tested clean, but know what they're doing. Having a good grip down there is also very important, at least as far as the sexual intercourse is concerned.
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Wow, I am seriously disgusted by the double standard. Sexism obviously hasn't been eradicated, but it's surprising to realize that we are still only concerned about whether the guy's getting his fix or not. It's rather pitiable that a man still has to measure himself by the woman he is with, while women can measure personal success by their own merits.
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This goes for the girls..giving your virginity away is somethin valuable..maybe not to guys but to girls it is..I'm guessing guys like virgins cause they like the tightness and their not sluts..I'm very happy that I still have my virginity..is somethin powerful I still have and I hope to give it up to a guy that deserves it n that values it just like I do
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I'm 19 and a virgin girl.. I'm talking to a man who is 23 and def. Not a virgin... After I told him I was a virgin his reaction was "I LOVE YOU!" and I was really shocked cause I always thought men prefered a more experienced girl.. So I asked him why he thought that was so hot and he said some men like experienced girls cause there a lot more easier then a virgin.. And he said he likes a challenge. I was a bit offended... I felt like it is more about a mans pride; that he was her first. An awesome prize.
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Shanon Collins answered
If I had to guess I would think because that guys like it because the girl is pure and it feels special when they give them something that special to them. Also it provides more pleasure for the guy because the girl is tighter.
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Anonymous answered
Speak 4 yourself bro I whipped that thing till it started talkin back to me lol jk
but 4 real stay pure male or female no body wants someone that another person marked up as their territory.
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Carla Taylor answered
Men like virgins because they think that it's a chanllenge to get them into bed as they have never done it before and they also think they're special if they are the first people that people have sex with.  
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Anonymous answered
Because they don't want experienced girl as like you will nt eat tht food which has been taken by some other...or left on plate by some one other...thts why they want fresh mallll
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Anonymous
Anonymous commented
I think that guys like virgins because they're tighter and inexperience so they could take advantage of them.
Anonymous
Anonymous commented
What the f*^@ are you talking about? That has nothing to do with why men like or don't virgins! Dude come on...
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So now this means that wen all you guys who want a virgin girl 4 a better sex would drop them after sum time because they r no more a virgin n can not please you that much again..rite..I would say you guys r sick who want a virgin girl for a better sex pleasure..if I would have had been a girl I would have not wanted to be with a guy whose thinking was so narrow..its always better to look to what you are than to go for the person whom should not deserve you..you guys should not deserve a single girl may it be a virgin or who is not a virgin..
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Anonymous commented
Thx you for standing up for virgin. You are so sweet. You are right those kind of guys dont deserve a girl as you as may it be a virgin og not.
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Some men like virgins and some don't...I guess
but virgins are good at having sex too
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Is always fan to break the seal. Who would want a girl who has slept with 20 guys anyway? Is a human nature to fight to be the first one
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Personally I think Virgins are clean and nice. I don't want to stick it in something dirty > . < THats my opinion
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Me 2 am still virgin!!!!and am over 20!!!!this is my most precious gift that I can gve my would be husband....
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Anonymous answered
Which men are we talking about here? Have any of you ever de-flowered a virgin? It isn't fun! In fact it is terrible!
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Paul
Paul commented
I was the second for one lady. It was not great sex. Yes, she felt great. I had to stop every couple of strokes because it hurt.
Anonymous
Anonymous commented
Yeah I have. Twice... Great both times... Yeah they were shy and didnt know whatt hey were doing but.....that made two of us... :)
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Anonymous commented
Sex hurts!!!! A lot, my first time was soo painful, but the guy felt very guilty afterward, surves the c*** right, lol
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Men ,like, virgin.thats true and thats false being a MAN or being a virgin have nothing to do w/ it
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They want to make sure they don't suck cause somehow they can figure out that you think they suck and they don't want other guys to be better than them
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Well I think that why men like virgins is because they can get more and pressure them in to doing it....
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Anonymous answered
I'm 19 still virgin coz I'm a muslim girl n it is nt coz I don't have b/f.
Now I'm really scare of having sex, I didnt no all this staff before
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Anonymous
Anonymous commented
Keep on that and be virgin till your time comes when everybody will now you broke your virgin in legal way.
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Anonymous answered
Its so true its tight and fresh but you don't always have too be a virgin to marry a virgin you can marry a non-virgin too !
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Think of it this way, you wouldnt drink something 26 other people have spit in would you?
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If you marry a virgin she will bleed for you only once....but bleed you for the rest of your life....beware!
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Imma guy, And Most of guys like tight vagina's. Not necessarily a virgin, Just Women who haven't had sex often. 
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Because if their was a woman that has slept with lets say 20 men. I wouldn't want to sleep with her, because if I sleep with her then I am technically sleeping with all the men that she slept with in the past, because whatever they had before, now she is carrying.
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Mary Cooke
Mary Cooke commented
And what about all the partners a man has? Are we saying here that a woman has to be a virgin and the guy does not?
Anonymous
Anonymous commented
Ummm...not really...becuz u do have to take a bath and clean ur self up. Im not sayin that i would sleep with "her/him" but i dont think thats a huge problem. Its the past. It could of been long ago....it just depends on ho0w far a part they were wen she slept with them.
Anonymous
Anonymous commented
Well not realy its just up to you to wear a condom if not then you sleeping with everybody she slept with. But what about all the girls you slept with?
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Me and my fiancee have been together for six years. We started sex two weeks after we met. Does that mean I'm somehow "ruined" and a bad woman? I do my exercises and I'm still tight, but the virgin tightness back then was nasty and it hurt. Should I now be led into thinking that even though it hurt me, it was awesome for him? This kind of heartlessness makes me angry.
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Who said they like? And if they like I can guess of one reason; Simply virgins have not slept with anybody and men enjoy breaking their virgin.
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They want to pop he cherry b/c for most men that is a passage into manhood, "deflowering" a virgin
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I'll just tell you what me Dad told me Hee hee!  The DIFFERENCE between a virgin and a F------g S--T  is...ONCE!
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Because they are unexperienced & since they are, men take advantage of it & get the virgin to do things sexually because they have never had the expierence before.
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Marilee Rizo answered
Fresher newer and not yet opened thoroughly Virgina means better sexual curses. The wider the easier it will enter the uterus the man will not have to effert or fell the pleasure of it going in.

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