I Am Married But There Is Another Man That I Can't Stop Thinking About. I See Him Occasionally, In Restaurants, Stores And The Like. I Just Cant Stop Thinking About Him. Can You Help?

You have to control yourself , always tr y to get together with your husband

I was going to thank you for answering the transgenedered question, but, I see you have a lot on your plate! To be honest, I've had many affairs with married women over the years (its funny it seems single women don't do this as much?) and its mainly ruined marriages. I am a New Yorker, so I practically seen it all and almost done it all - but, I still have some things my bucket list to do. If your the type who is an adventurer and gets off on the adrenalin of the thought of a rendevous, try doing it with your hubby 1st, go on a second honeymoon (or just a quick love get away) or ask him if he'd like to try a 3 some or swapping partners (that will fulfill most desirous situations). Remember, the mind is the most erotic part of your body! Good luck and let me know what you decide to do!

I think you need to find other things to do, in other places. Is your town so small you have to run in to each other?  Does it seem he only emails you after you have a chance meeting. He could take or leave a relationship with you when you are not around, his interest is sparked when he sees you. If you are not answering his emails, take one time to tell him, (not ask him) to stop. Unless you enjoy the attention (and that can be possible), make it known to leave you off his list of flings. Good luck to you, I know its not easy.