How Do You Know If You Have Fallen In Love? I Have Very Strong Feelings For My Girlfriend And Think It Is Love, But How Can I Be Sure?

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How Do You Know If You Have Fallen In Love? I Have Very Strong Feelings For My Girlfriend And Think It Is Love, But How Can I Be Sure?

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Answer 1

This question is always difficult to answer, as love is not quantifiable, and there is no way of testing whether you are in love or not. However, when you're in love, it's usually obvious - you just know.

Feeling excited and happy, almost elated, is a common sign that you're in love. At first you may even feel like you're floating, and you just want to talk about that person to anyone who will listen.

To find out whether you might be in love (or like and care for someone very strongly) you could try asking yourself the following questions. If you answer yes, there's a good chance you might be in love!

Are you always thinking about her?
Do you constantly want to talk to her, even if you having nothing to say?
Are her feelings as important (if not more) to you than your own?
Do you trust her?
Would you give her your last Rolo?
Do you want to spend all your time with her?
Do you miss her as soon as you're apart?

"We're all a little weird, and life's a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love." — Dr. Seuss

Answer 2

Oh dear there is a simple way by which you can make out your feelings - you just answer the following questions:

Do you miss her when she is not with you?
Do you always think about her and always want to call her up for asking small things?
Do you feel jealous when she speaks to some other guy?
Do you really care for her feelings?
Do you people share a good relationship?
Do you people have good understanding?
Do you always want her to be happy?
Do you people trust each other?
Do you people sacrifice for each other?

If your answer is yes then dear, you are DEFINITELY IN LOVE. You two have less chance of having any problems in future.

All the best for your future!

Answer 3

You always want to be around them, and when you are, you still cannot stop thinking about them.
You're so content that you do not want anyone else and you think that what you have is the best.

Answer 4

The very doubt whether you are in love is confirmation that you are indeed in love. The time-tested proof of whether one is in love is by identifying whether you are getting proper sleep, able to eat food as you normally used to and whether you are able to concentrate on all other things except your girlfriend. If the answer to these is no, then friend, you are in love!