How Can I Stop Being Jealous Of My Boyfriend's Ex?


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Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
It means that you are very insecure of yourself and unsure about your relationship with your boyfriend. You keep comparing yourself with the other girlfriend and wondering if you can be as good as she was to hold on to your boyfriend. Stop trying to be somebody else. Just be yourself and if your boyfriend really loves you for you, he will accept you. All humans are different from each other. That is what makes the world so interesting, variety of peole, personalities etc. How boring it would be if we were all the same. Just relax and trust that our boyfriend loves you for who you are (until he gives you a reason to feel otherwise).
Joan Profile
Joan answered
This is simple.  Every time you think about being jealous, remember one thing...she is the EX.  He has chosen you, not her.  She lacked something that you have.  You fill a need she does not.  You have nothing to be jealous of.  You are the #1 in his life.  She no longer even has a rating.  Don't let his Ex interfere in your happiness.  When you allow her to get in your head and mess with your happiness you are giving her power over you.  Forget her, your boyfriend has!
Michael Lai Profile
Michael Lai answered
Think about what you are jealous about exactly.  If it is about her being your boyfriend's previous girlfriend, then it is just because he made a commitment to her first, not necessarily because she is better for him then you.  If it is about your boyfriend liking her, just think about the fact that he is now in a relationship with you, and what that means.
Judith (Irish Faerie Blessings) Kreindel Profile
You feel she is competition, she knows your bf well, you're afraid he will decide there's something worth going back to her for. Be confident in yourself but also calmly let your bf know of your concerns..likely he has similar feelings about one of your ex's.
April Victorine Profile
April Victorine answered
It's not going to happen, your going to stay jealous because that's apart of his life you weren't involved with...just remember there an EX for a reason.... Maybe just maybe if you ask your boyfriend to tell you her bad qualities maybe it well make you feel less jealous
Pixie Moore Profile
Pixie Moore answered
Just finished reading I Hate His Ex by Alex Cooper. Brilliant read for anyone having relationship troubles to do with past relationships :) xxxx
anni Profile
anni answered
Like everyone said before.. It just means your insecure.. You just have to trust that if he is your boyfriend is because he loves you.. Cheer up an trust in your self a little more!  As we say in mexico "lo ke no fue en tu año no fue en tu daño!" or what means that  things that didn´t happend in your time are not in your damage..
Pixie Moore Profile
Pixie Moore answered
I just read I Hate His/Her Ex by Alex Cooper. You can get it on Amazon or other bookstores. It helped me to deal with so many issues that I had with my fiance’s ex - who I really hated!! Now, my relationship is perfect :) xxx
Stephanie ramirez Profile
Becausee you don't trust your boyfriend!
Or maybee that girl is a bitch and you know she could mess up your relationshhip! Talk with your boyffriend about this he could help you get over that jealousy,
jada pickett Profile
jada pickett answered
Don't be it just your boyfriend ex you need to stop be  jealous if they talk 2 each other don't make that agest
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
I have the same problem I think my boyfirned might still like his ex see I'm friends with his ex just not good friends and I'm worried that he might still have feelings for her cause he always plays with her and wrestles with her he does the same with me but more often with his ex I'm worried! And when I'm not around he steals her stuff and wrestles with her I think he still likes her!?!!?! Help! Sorry I couldnt answer your question but ppl please help!

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