What Do I Do To Trust My Girlfriend Fully?


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Yo Kass answered
To improve the trust in any relationship, you first need to look at reasons why there might be a lack of trust. Ask yourself what is causing you to feel like you shouldn't trust your girlfriend, then work to ease those doubts through dialogue and openness.

How to trust your girlfriend Many men find it difficult to trust their girlfriend, often because of insecurities they may have. There's nothing wrong with feeling insecure, everyone does at some point, but owning up to insecurity and dealing with it can be difficult. The worst thing you can do about any self-doubt or insecurity is to ignore it and not address it. This will allow your worries to fester and boil up underneath the surface until, before you realise it, they have become a major issue in your relationship. So the first question you should ask yourself is 'Why do I have problem trusting my girlfriend?'

Trusting your partner: Start with yourself Before you start working out how to improve the trust between the two of you, spend some time thinking about whether there is anything that may be affecting your views or judgement?
  • Have you been cheated on in the past?
  • Does your girlfriend have trust issues herself?
  • Did your parents ever have infidelity issues?
Although none of the above may be relevant, it's always good to keep an open mind.

Relationships and trust One of the biggest obstacles to any relationship is trust. Before putting your heart on the line, it makes sense that you'd want to make sure it's safe to do so. In my opinion, if you're having any doubts about what's going on in your relationship, the best thing to do is to address them with your girlfriend in a calm and open manner. It's really important that you don't go in all guns blazing, making accusations and making her feel uncomfortable. Just present your reasons for feeling worried, make sure she knows how much you care about her and be as honest as possible.
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Will Martin answered
It depends on whether your girlfriend has given you any reason to mistrust her. If you have any reason to believe she has not been honest with you, then maybe you need to tell her what's worrying you and see what explanation she gives you.

On the other hand, your question sounds like you feel maybe you have a problem with jealousy, rather than thinking she has betrayed you. If you do feel it's your problem, I think you should talk to her anyway. Explain that you get jealous and you want to trust her, but feel a bit insecure. She may be able to reassure you. Talking may help you to clarify exactly why it is that you have a problem trusting her.

It is a good idea to try to overcome your jealousy. It can happen that if a person is suspicious of their partner with no reason, the partner gets so annoyed that it can seriously damage the relationship.

Also: trust comes with time. How long have you been together? You may feel more comfortable after a little more time.
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Anonymous answered
I don't really see a trust issue here it's more of that your afraid to trust her with your heart, am I right? If so then you need to confront her about it. If you just have problems trusting her in general than maybe your relationship isn't such a good idea. I'm not saying you should end the relationship, I think you should tell her about your trust issues and see where things go from there.

All in all I guess what I am saying is talk to her about it. If you talk to her and your still not convinced then you should maybe end the relationship. I hope this helped you, maybe someone will give you better advice...

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