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Many people feel like their relationship gets boring at some point or another. If you spend a lot of time with someone, eventually it is only natural that things start to seem a bit mundane. Keeping the flames burning bright comes down to being spontaneous, seizing the moment and remembering to pay attention to all the small things.
How to make your relationship more interesting In my opinion, the best thing to do to inject some spark back into your relationship is to be spontaneous.
Just to be clear, I don't mean 'mid-life crisis, buy a Harley and get a tattoo of a flaming skull on your forehead' type of spontaneous.
They way to approach being spontaneous is to take a look at your usual routine, and simply replace all the less interesting bits with active and creative past-times.
For example, if you usually spend Saturday night boring your girlfriend by renting a movie from Blockbusters and and ordering a pizza- why not suggest something unpredictable and different instead? (I don't mean a different pizza topping either)
Find out what she's in to and try and show that you take an interest in her hobbies to. For example, if she's into vintage fashion, maybe you could take her to a '50s themed club night or a retro roller disco.
YOLO! Carpe diem! How to not bore your girlfriend! YOLO is a commonly used internet acronym that stands for You Only Live Once. Try to keep this in mind when you're spending time with your girlfriend. No woman wants to spend her life with a man that is happy coasting along in life. You've got to show her that you're as full throttle about life as a Pepsi-Max advert.
Bored in your relationship? Focus on the small things Whenever I'm in doubt, I always look to the musings of Californian pop-punk band Blink 182 for inspiration. Although I'm not 100% sure what the lyrics are all about, their song 'All the small things' reminds me of that feeling of being in a relationship with someone that pays attention to all those little things that most people don't notice. Taking this approach can be a great way to bring the passion back into your relationship. Try 'leaving her roses by the stairs' (as the song goes, although I'm not too sure about 'turning the lights off and carrying her home'...)
One final suggestion is that, a lot of times, problems in a relationship start in the bedroom. Why not try and spice up your love life and see of that gives your relationship a boost? Being a bit more creative and adventurous between the sheets might make your girlfriend realise just how 'un-boring' you actually are. You could even try using sex toys to bring the buzz back into the relationship (yeah, that pun was kind of intended).
How to make your relationship more interesting In my opinion, the best thing to do to inject some spark back into your relationship is to be spontaneous.
Just to be clear, I don't mean 'mid-life crisis, buy a Harley and get a tattoo of a flaming skull on your forehead' type of spontaneous.
They way to approach being spontaneous is to take a look at your usual routine, and simply replace all the less interesting bits with active and creative past-times.
For example, if you usually spend Saturday night boring your girlfriend by renting a movie from Blockbusters and and ordering a pizza- why not suggest something unpredictable and different instead? (I don't mean a different pizza topping either)
Find out what she's in to and try and show that you take an interest in her hobbies to. For example, if she's into vintage fashion, maybe you could take her to a '50s themed club night or a retro roller disco.
YOLO! Carpe diem! How to not bore your girlfriend! YOLO is a commonly used internet acronym that stands for You Only Live Once. Try to keep this in mind when you're spending time with your girlfriend. No woman wants to spend her life with a man that is happy coasting along in life. You've got to show her that you're as full throttle about life as a Pepsi-Max advert.
Bored in your relationship? Focus on the small things Whenever I'm in doubt, I always look to the musings of Californian pop-punk band Blink 182 for inspiration. Although I'm not 100% sure what the lyrics are all about, their song 'All the small things' reminds me of that feeling of being in a relationship with someone that pays attention to all those little things that most people don't notice. Taking this approach can be a great way to bring the passion back into your relationship. Try 'leaving her roses by the stairs' (as the song goes, although I'm not too sure about 'turning the lights off and carrying her home'...)
One final suggestion is that, a lot of times, problems in a relationship start in the bedroom. Why not try and spice up your love life and see of that gives your relationship a boost? Being a bit more creative and adventurous between the sheets might make your girlfriend realise just how 'un-boring' you actually are. You could even try using sex toys to bring the buzz back into the relationship (yeah, that pun was kind of intended).
