How Can I Pamper My Girlfriend?


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Neha Agrawal Profile
Neha Agrawal answered
There are many things you can do pamper you girlfriend. Why not dedicate a weekend making sure she feels relaxed and loved. You could have cozy nights in watching movies, but make sure you let her choose! Also, suggest cooking for her and ask her what her favorite meals are, although if you're a good boyfriend you should know that already. If you really want to pamper her give her a nice relaxing massage or take her out for a day of shopping around her favorite malls and stores. The main thing you need to remember when pampering your girlfriend is that you let her decide what things she wants to do and you just make sure you're there for what she needs.

If you're looking to spend a romantic weekend together you could consider going out of town and stay in a nice hotel near the beach. You could also consider setting up a camping weekend in the woods or have a look to see if there are any music festivals going on near you. Keep in mind that the latter option will usually only be available in the summer months. You may also want to think about taking your girlfriend to spend a week with her family. If she is close with her family and doesn't get to see them much, I'm sure she would appreciate you making the effort to organize some quality time with her family. You could organize a nice sit down meal in a restaurant or ask your girlfriend what she would prefer.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
Mould them according to your requirement. Here I would like to quote, "In life, there is a very rare chance that you will meet a person you fall in love with and who loves you in return. Once you have this, don't let it go. You may never get it again."

Don't launch an attack:

She got down from her car and came running in. I was sitting there waiting for her. I had been waiting for the last half an hour. She sat down in the chair opposite me and wanted to say something. I knew she wanted to apologise for coming late.

"Will you ever come in time? Why don't you have some time sense?" "So, your boss let you leave at last!" "Why your boss let you leave at last!" "Why are you still worKing in that stupid place?" "What great things are you 'doing there?" I did not launch an attack like that.

Pay an unexpected compliment:

Instead, I said, "Linda, the problem with you look more beautiful each time I see you. What is the secret?"

Her expressions turned from worry to joy. Finally, she gave a nice ear-to-ear smile.

"You are so nice, Chilipi. I know you are simply pulling my leg. But still I love it." She continued, "I thought you are going to scold me for coming late." I "Scold you? No chance. I know about mid-day traffic...or may be you had a sudden meeting in the office?" "You are very understanding. I am so lucky," she said wholeheartedly.

We continue our sweet talk. You can be more romantic with such compliments.

Treat her as unique:

Give her all the love you can. Treat her as an individual with selfesteem. The way she does things, the way she talks, the way she smiles...all these make her different from others. You loved this different "her." Let her be what she is. Sometimes, she wants to know, "Chilipi, why do you love me so much?" "I love you because you are Linda, the only woman on this earth for me," her face glows.

Be sincere:

A few words are enough. Be sincere. Let them come out of your heart. Tell her how special she is. Once she asked, "Don't you think I am a bit difficult sometimes? Please tell me how to change myself." I brushed her words aside, "No, Linda. I love you as, you are. If you behave differently, you will not be Linda. You will be somebody else.

Not my Linda." Treat her well. Tell her what she wants to hear. Give wholeheartedly. Like they say, "The more you give, the more you receive."

Give her sweet shocks:

Give her some lovely, sweet shocks. Enjoy her reaction. See how she loves those shocks and love you more in return. I ask her, "Linda, why do you confuse me so much?" "What did I do?" she is confused.

"Just now you removed your spectacles. I am confused. I don't know whether you are more beautiful with your specs on or without them." "You are impossible." Her expression says she loves every bit of it.

Tease her:

"Everything is perfect with you Linda, but there is one problem," I tease her. "What is that?" Linda was worried and anxious to know her problem.

"Your problem is that you don't believe me when I say you are a beautiful and wonderful girl," giving her a Chilipi smile.

She loved it but said, "I know I am not. You are simply saying that!" I don't leave it at that. "Look madam, do one thing. Today after you go home, look at yourself in the mirror. Don't simply look. Observe carefully - your hair, forehead, eyebrows, eyes everything. Every bit is so nice. You will love what you see. Tomorrow come and tell me what you see." You can be sure she will do it and love it too.

Use innovative adjectives:

Do not stick to the same adjectives all the time even though she doesn't mind. There are so many good ones.

The thesaurus in your computer will help you. Words like gorgeous, ravishing, stunning, etc. Can be sprinkled to good effect. Call her honey, angel, sweetheart,' sweety, etc. No limit for innovations.

My friend once called his girlfriend "Onida". She was baffled.

He explained: Neighbour's envy, owner's pride! Is there any girl who wouldn't love that?

Good words cost nothing:

My uncle used to say to my aunt, "Hurry, up! We are already late. I don't understand you, woman!" Without even looking at her after she had spent one hour dressing up, I used to compensate for that, "Aunty, I don't like to call you 'aunty'. You look so young and charming. You can't be more than 30!" Her face would glow with happiness.

A few nice words don't cost you anything. But they go a long way in making women happy. They deserve those words too!

Make her feel important:

When you want to take her to a new joint, don't say, "I like the food there. Let us go." Instead say, "You will love the food there!" Your words will show that you care for her likes and dislikes.

Give her equal opportunity to spend:

Most of the time our expenses even out. Food bills, movies, petrol. "I will pay for it!" She declares sometimes. Other times I pay. If one of us takes the initiative, we let it be that way. Equal sharing is always good, when both are earning.

Respect her job:

Understand her work environment. Each workplace is different. The bosses, colleagues, and the work itself are different. The work pressure is unique. When you meet, both of you should be relieved of all tensions. Arguments will add to the tensions.

Don't hurt her selfrespect. If your work is important to you, hers is to her. So, tell her that you understand the importance of her work. Assure her that a few minutes delay doesn't make any difference. The heaven won't fall. Next time she will try her best to arrive before you.

Make amends immediately:

Sometimes, you might hurt her feelings with something, you do or say. Once it happened with me. "You can't come? What great thing are you doing there?" I asked her on the phone. It was a slip of tongue. It happens. Nobody is perfect. She did not react.

At least, she did not show it. But I realised my mistake. I called her immediately and apologised. It is better to let go of your pride and ego for the sake of the one you love rather than to lose the loved one because of your pride and ego.

Be sensitive to her moods and problems:

It is true that you both meet to spend some nice time together. You wish to leave all your problems and worries behind you. But she may have some problems at home or in the office. You shouldn't I say, "For God's sake, don't bring your problems here and spoil my mood." Problems and mood can't be switched off and on as you wish. You are equal partners in both happiness and worries. Be sensitive to her problems. A few nice words might change her mood and make your evening perfect.

Don't try to encroach upon her space:

Let her have her space. Don't encroach on it even with good intentions. She may have some issues she may not want to share with you - issues related to her parents or siblings perhaps.

I say, "Linda, I don't want to force you to share everything with me. But if you wish to you are welcome. I am always with you."

Be a good listener:

Be a good listener. Let her speak about her problems. Show her that you are interested in them. Interrupt with a few comments. At the end, if you have some suggestions, it is wonderful. Even otherwise, half of her burden has been unloaded just by pouring everything out.

You can use these tips because you are married? The fact that you are married does not mean you don't have a girlfriend! What I mean is that a girlfriend is not a wife, but your wife can still be your girlfriend. She has not changed after marriage. You haven't either. She loves you the same way. You too.

Go ahead and use these tips and enjoy the fruits they bring you.

Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
First should tell her you care about her so much you want to pamper her and make her happy....major turn on. And it's really *really* sweet that you do care about her like that. Depending on what type of girl she is...think about her favorite activities, rent (or buy her) her favorite movie, send her flowers, cuddle up with her and whisper things in her ear as you play with her hair.....small things that she'll notice and will have a big's magical, and I'm sure she'd appreciate it.
E Jacobson Profile
E Jacobson answered
Within any relationship pampering is very important and helps keep the magic of the relationship alive. But pampering is very individual and many people have different views on how to be pampered.

The best way is to think about what your girlfriend likes. If she loves long walks in the country and snuggling up to a roaring fire in the evening, then book a hotel in the country and plan some walks etc. If she likes culture and different foods, then a city break in Europe may appeal to her. The most important thing is to actually consider what she would like and to do something to make her feel special.

Conventionally men are often encouraged to buy perfume, flowers and champagne as a way of pampering their girlfriend or wife, but this is not to every woman's taste. There can be nothing less romantic than just going through the motions: she will want something which is tailored to her personal taste and which reflects the special relationship you share.
i temmerman Profile
i temmerman answered
It depends on the type of girl you are dating, but to love her, be kind and considerate, to make everything about both of you and not just you, is enough pampering to make any woman happy. Being creative is nice and you could learn something from trying new things too. Plant her a rose which you name after her, bake her a heart shaped cake, write her a poem and have it framed with a picture of you both in it. The meals, bubble baths, weekends away are all nice but nothing beats being creative.
Anonymous Profile
Anonymous answered
You can pamper your girlfriend in many ways.Take her to get her nails done, for a pedicure. Get her hair done.Take her shopping, out to eat. Whatever comes to mind. Let her know that it is her day and that price is no option.
Caroleanne Profile
Caroleanne answered
Tell her that you love her but most importantly SHOW her.
Sometimes it's the little things you do that means a lot.

Wash her back and caress her while you take a bath feels really for both of you and she'll love it. Don't forget the candles.

Just put a flower on her pillow just before you go to bed and make her a massage.

Wright her little notes before she goes to work or put the notes in her lunch bag, she'll laugh and she'll think of you and how nice you are.

If you have time just prepare her dinner and let her relax.

Just open a bottle of wine while you relax on the couch listening to good and soft music. You can even ask her to dance with you, she'll be really pleased.

So as you can see there's a lot of ways you can pamper your girl, it doesn't have to be something expensive, just little things that she'll aprreciate a lot and she'll remember a long time. You don't forget that kind of attention and you know that the person really cares and love you.
Annie McManus Profile
Annie McManus answered
Pampering your wife is easy. Use the tips you know about what she likes. Take her somewhere that she loves and talks about. Buy her a nice dinner. Or even something from the heart that says to her " I could buy you something but I love you so much I'm making you something from the heart." That's how your girl will feel pampered.
Wendy Profile
Wendy answered
Wow!this is such a great question. Well if you know what her favourite things are like her favourite meal, her favourite dessert, etc. You could make a meal for her. Or you could have a friend or friends help you with the making of the meal if you're not a chef/baker.
Choose a day that's you know she's not busy and spend it with her. Have breakfast together. Arrange either lunch or supper to be the meal of her favourite things. Give her a gift certificate to a place that you know she likes to shop. Go for a walk together.
You could also ask her if there's anything she wants to do and do that with her. Like going to a local water park together and paying her way.
Kaley Mayhew Profile
Kaley Mayhew answered
Do little things that make her smile.. Random flowers and "I love you"s  are wonderful.. Take her to the movies and dinner.. Maybe rub her feet (if they're not terrifying)....
kourtney davis Profile
kourtney davis answered
Just take her out to eat, spend time with her, if you want to buyy her a gift or to. Just sho her that you love her and you want to spend time with her
awawa tokyo Profile
awawa tokyo answered
Make a wonderful breakfast and bring it to her bed! Treat her like a princess! Almost every girl want to be a princess. At least I am

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