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My boyfriend asked for a break and now he's dating his ex, expecting us to still be friends. i told him i don't want to be friends. I see him everyday, and his now gf is my friend. I freeze when i see him or them together. how do i move on?

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Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

Make a clean break with him and move on. I'm sure there are other boys that are interested in you. Talk to some of them! You might just find a real boyfriend instead of someone who wants a "break" to date other girls !

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Rooster Cogburn
Rooster Cogburn commented
Give it time, hon ! You're a pretty young lady and some young man is going to sweep you off your feet and he'll be the one that's miserable ! Smile ! You can do it !
Sophia Tortilla
Sophia Tortilla commented
Aw thank you rooster that made me smile :)
Rooster Cogburn
Rooster Cogburn commented
That's what you need to do all the time SMILE ! It'll drive him nuts ! Wait till he see's you with someone else and the shoe is on the other foot ! You'll feel like a million bucks ! You're young ! Enjoy it ! :)
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Pepper pot answered

It's certainly an awkward situation being friends with his girlfriend after his finished with you or "taken a break" from you. If she's dating him again she's going to be talking about him and right now he needs to remain "the A-hole" because that's what he is acting like. Maybe she'll finally understand when he takes a break from her for a second time and dates his "ex ex girlfriend" instead O_o 

Don't end up in the same situation as her, this guy is playing you all. There must be other guys out there or do you live on an island with one? Find yourself a good guy who treats you well, in the meantime create some distance so your head and emotions have some space. Before you know it your be moved on.

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Sophia Tortilla
Sophia Tortilla commented
Thank you, pepper. you're absolutely right. he even mentioned something like "oh if history repeats, then maybe in the future we will repeat." after i told him tht history repeats and thats why he ended up with he girl that he left for me. I guess i was blind...
Pepper pot
Pepper pot commented
You deserve better. Sometimes when your in the midst of something and emotionally involved it's hard to see. All the best to you Sophia
Sophia Tortilla
Sophia Tortilla commented
I guess so, but thanks :)

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