Can feelings change? Certainly they can. People grow apart as they age, someone is disloyal, someone lies, someone does not show respect for the other, someone tries to control the other party, someone hits or is verbally abusive, someone is jealous and constantly accuses the other of being unfaithful, someone is self-centered and/or selfish, there are as many reason for feelings to change as there are fish in the sea (slight exaggeration). On the other hand, one can go from feeling no connection to another person to seeing that person as the one you wish to spend your life with. The "whys" of feelings and emotions are hard to pin down and describe. As with everything in the world, they are subject to change. All things change and feelings are no different.
