It feels great to look at great looking women, and has nothing to do with sex, or having a commitment, it is a relief, a pleasure, and a few of my ex understood that. I remember we used to walk around just to search and report of beautiful women on the street, it was great, till we got to the point we included men in the activity, then the whole thing became an argument that had something to do with feminism. Not commitment issues, just feminism..
I can only answer for myself, I looked at other women in all of my relationship, all of them were serious, and had a grand emphasis on commitment in them. Looking at other women wasn't a fantasy thing, it was, feels naive saying, mere aesthetics.
Once I got married I heavily forgot about the essence of other men. Let's be clear I notice the exist and truly that was about it. It was until he got the nervous to commit on another woman's feet while I was sitting right their. To make it worse he said my wife do to after he seen the look of death on my face. Then their was the computer thing that add to him looking at other women. While I decide to start noticing other men then he had a problem and still does. So I make it my GOD given duty to gawk at other men even if I am truly not attract to no one else but him. The point is that he notice that it bothers him when I do that to him so then why do it to me. Love is love and men like variety because they feel that it is okay to spread and cheer on this stupid yet understanding behavior when it is done to them and only then they can see your point of view. It makes you feel like you are not enough. Today we at the fire works and the pig had his trunk up and was behind it and when he heard other women's voice he tried to close it and get a good look at what was coming for him. While me and his sister stood there and watch him. Here is the good part. If you ask him he will tell you i was not looking at them. If though his sister and I was watching and I called him out. Like watch this. SCORED! Just sad.
OK look girls guys are like toddlers needing potTy trained, you have to train your man like I did from the time we met he would stare and break his neck to look at other females I watched him do this and never said a word until I started to break my neck at guys he gets mad and gods why you staring at him do You want him I'm like no I like his shirt well months went by and I'd was still staring at women we go out to eat id was lookin at this waitress from head to toe when she came back to our table to give our check I spoke up and said Dang girl you must have it going on my man checking you out can I take your picture so he can remember this moment for years to come and maybe your number too he put his head down she smiled and said awe he not my type when your man breaks his neck to look at other women don't get upset or feel as if he don't want you cause all your doing is lowering your self esteem stay strong smile be confident about yourself love your self and your man but with power guys do things to try and weaken us don't let no man bring you down men love women who will speak up about anything that is not right in your relationship I did it and he don't stare like he was before he is a great man all he needed was someone like me to put him in check
Its a natural thing for men to look at other women as they like the feminine side of things just like us women like to look at men in the same way its nothing sexual there is nothing wrong with looking as long as you dont do anything about it if your in a relationship
I guess its a man things, why they look at other women.
Because we're NOT GAY!!!!! If a guy starts lookin at other guys then there's a problem. #Legit