Why Do Men Look At Pornography When They Have A Girlfriend?

He is a guy they dont change these things just think hey if he wants too see other girls best he do it in the comfort of your own house with dvd than going out and seeing it in real life

Either|
to piss you off
for fun
or to piss you off

I think as a woman...he must want someone who looks like or does those things he is seeing in porn. He wants something different than what he has with us or both or I actually have no idea but it makes me feel so insignificant. If men would realize how it makes us feel and they dont stop does that mean they care more about porn than us?

My husband told me he has had fantasies of other women before,which i think is normal. If it's in his mind or on the screen, what difference does it make? However, if he wanted me out of the room, I would feel hurt. He always insist that I watch them with him. If I don't want to, he's like....okay, what do you want to watch or do instead?

Men look at pornography even when they have a girlfriend for many reasons. Some like to fantasize about different women. Different skin colors, size, etc. Some do it because they want to think about someone else while having sex with you. Some do it because they're bored. Most do it to "get off".

I hear you,  I have the same problem.  Great relationship with my fella but I hate how he looks at porn and neglects me.  Then he thinks I being insecure because I feel that he does the computer more than me.  You know what? I am! Its not nice him jerking off to other girls doing whatever they will to degrade themselves.  I am totally adventurous and I still cannot seem to remove porn from the relationship.  I used to enjoy it with him but now I dont, it makes me feel uncomfortable.  I asked him to stop for 1 mth, he did 2 weeks. No problem? Then why cant he stop??? I dont know what more to say... :(

I'm not the one to answer why they do it. But I'd be more concerned with what kind of porn they're into and if it doesn't bother you or anyone else why not?

No, it's because they'd rather be with someone else. Though they usually wont admit it.