What Should I Do With My Gay Mom?

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Adam Center answered
You have the right to be uncomfortable and you definitely have the right to not want to go. And it's ok to be weirded out by it at first. But you really need to learn to accept your mom for who she is. But you definitely have the right to be uncomfortable and you shouldn't have to go. Just have a talk with your mom and tell her that you don't want to go cause you feel it would be awkward or you could always lie and tell her a different reason but that is a last resort type thing. Hope this helps.
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You definitely have the right to. Don't let your mom get you down. It's your life not hers. She doesn't have the right to yell at you for feeling uncomfortable, and whatever you do just no you are not obligated at all to go on this trip, and if your mom is hard-headed (sorry don't want to insult her but couldn't think of any other word) then you pretty much have no choice and kinda gotta lie. Or just tell her its too soon if she is a good mother she will understand.
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Anon amous
Anon amous commented
i tried and she makes a big deal out of it telling me how could you do this to me u are apart of this family and you cant exculude yourself from that part of my life i love my mom and i will accept that she is gay but i just found out no to long ago but i think i should have a right to feel uncomfortable
Adam Center
Adam Center commented
You definitely have the right to. Don't let your mom get you down. It's your life not hers. She doesn't have the right to yell at you for feeling uncomfortable, and whatever you do just no you are not obligated at all to go on this trip, and if your mom is hard-headed (sorry don't want to insult her but couldn't think of any other word) then you pretty much have no choice and kinda gotta lie. Or just tell her its too soon if she is a good mother she will understand.
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John answered
Yes, you have the right to be uncomfortable. As your mom she should do everything she can to to deal with your feelings about her life choices...if you do not agree with her life choice she should not try and force her decisions on you...if you do not want to go on a trip with her and her friend because of this she should arrange for you to stay with a family relative. Or a close friend and her family..your moms main duty in life is to you and your upbringing this is first above others...she brought you into this world not the other way around...this is my two cents....hope you and your mom can resolve this issue...hope this helps...

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