If I am reading your question correctly, do not tell this person you like someone else. Tell them that what you two have is not working for you and you would like to move on. You wish them well, but you feel your relationship is not what you are looking for at this time in your life. It’s no ones fault it is just not the way you envision your lifelong relationship to be. There is an old saying “If it doesn’t fit, don’t force it”. Take care.
Thanks I just find it so hard b/c I love what me and my current bf have, and what we have is something that I can see myself living like for the rest of my life, don't get me wrong, I absolutely love my boyfriend too, but recently I had another guy, totally random, enter my life & I find myself asking myself if its ok to take a break from my current bf for a wk or so, get to know this other person but not get intimate, & if it is not what I want then come back -this is a question I am so scared of the answer I havent had the guts to ask anyone :( . I am only 19 so I'm still young. I don't want to look back 30 yrs from now, unhappy and say wow I should'of. UGH! This is so hard.
You can tell if they spend time with that person a lot, or you can tell if they laugh at them a lot and look at them a lot. That's how you can tell... It really hurts to see someone you like with someone else.
