While Having Sex, My Boyfriend Couldn't Get Hard. What Does That Mean, And What Can I Do To Help?

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Was it your first time? If it was he might be nervous about it. Or he's worried or stressed or tired...
There's a bunch of reasons why he might not be able to get hard and most of them a really no reason to worry about. I'd say just be patient and don't pressure him. This is probably bothering him loads more than you.

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Anonymous commented
Yes. It was our first time. That was probably it.
Thank you very much of your answer. I know he was a little worried/embarrassed about it.
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Anonymous commented
Wait till you are married, you bad girl!
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You have a soul as well as reproductive organs. Save the most intimate physical expression for your soul mate who is committed to you. How will you know you've found the right one? He'll commit to you before sex. He'll prove he's committed by marrying you first. He'll honor you before he asks you to spread your legs for him.
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Anonymous answered
Being thar it was your first time this can happen and nothing to worry about. Once he is excited enough boy will he release.
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Toast Master answered
Ok you need to provide more information.
How old is he? Does he have any medical conditions like diabetes or high blood pressure? Is he on any medications? Has this happened before? Was alcohol or drugs involved? Was he unusually tired or worried? Did you try to get him hard with your hand or mouth?
If all the above are negative, there are very effective medications that the doctor can prescribe to help.
Good luck.
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He's 17 and no's the answer to all the above.
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If this is your boyfriend and you are not married you should not even think about having sex with him. Take cold showers, volunteer at senior centers, join a church and be active, go hiking, dunk your hand in boiling water.

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