Ways To Get Over Someone
• The best way to get over someone is simply to give yourself time to recover from the emotions you're feeling. Love may happen fast, but it can fade fast, too - especially when love is unrequited. When love is not returned, it tends to die; you could compare it to a plant that isn't receiving sunlight, water, and oxygen. In time, if your love is not returned, it will likely die a natural death. In a month, or a few months, your feelings will start to lose their intensity - that is a sign that you have reached some level of acceptance about the situation.
• Sometimes, when the pain of loving someone does not go away, it is a symptom that something is wrong; certain personality disorders, such as borderline personality disorder, can trigger painful obsessions with other people. Sometimes, the struggle of enduring unrequited love will also triggers mental disorders, such as depression. Luckily, these disorders can be soothed and eased with therapy. Finding a good therapist is an excellent way to take care of yourself while you are experiencing these emotions.
Hate is not the answer - loving yourself enough to move on is the key to a better life. There are millions of people on the planet, and one or many of them will be very happy to spend time with you, or to have the opportunity to love you. Instead of looking back in anger, look forward with hope.