I think a lifetime of trying to be what they are expected to be is really hard. Men have a more ridged template to follow. Often times they are not allowed to ask if that was good enough it makes them feel week. Most men have any of the same insecurities other men do. Am I doing it right? Did I provide enough? Was that what she wanted? Is my dad proud of me? Be sure to reward your man if he is doing it right /and tell him if he is not. Along the same lines be sensitive to his insecurities because most likely they are the same as yours.
It's probably the same reason women feel insecure. It seems that everyone has there own insecurities.
Some more than others. Noone really wants disapproval and this scares some people very badly.
I imagine if we had a world without insecurities we'd all walk around naked and noone would ever feel embarrassed. Its all in human nature we are not perfect and we know it but some of us can't excepte it as well as others and this creates insecurities.
Hope this hleps. ^_^
Some more than others. Noone really wants disapproval and this scares some people very badly.
I imagine if we had a world without insecurities we'd all walk around naked and noone would ever feel embarrassed. Its all in human nature we are not perfect and we know it but some of us can't excepte it as well as others and this creates insecurities.
Hope this hleps. ^_^
Nobody likes to be rejected. And you sound kinda nuts anyway. Why do you like him now when you didn't show interest before. The guy provably thinks you aer showing interest just to piss off somebody else. I don't blame him because nobody wants to get hurt. If you really like him just let him know go in for the kill.its sounds like its your fault you should take the risk.